am i ???????????
i asked this but it was removed
i was with a friend and we decided to fool around
we played with each others ----u know where---
and then jerked off.
am i gay?
( i have nothing against being gay)
im 14 just to tell you
i enjoyed and so did he ( where both guys)
we want to do it again
and i kissed him
am i gay?
2006-10-07 12:57:29 · 19 answers · asked by rich_yu2002 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
whenever i see him
he kisses me
2006-10-07 13:01:40 · update #1
maybe you're just experimenting. maybe you're bi, maybe you're gay. but you do sound happy.
good luck kid
2006-10-07 12:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jilli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, means that you played around with another kid...very common, has nothing to do with being gay. If you got the truth, you would find that most 'cousins' fool around at one time or another. IT harms nothing, it is a phase, and it passes in 90% of men, the other 10 or so percent are gay...so what. Ya are what ya are..no big deal either way. Don't let anyone tell you that because you fooled around and jo'd with another guy means anything..except that you both were horny and it was convenient...that is all there is to it. Kissing means you have a romantic streak a mile wide...will come in very handy in life. IF you find that down the road, you prefer males to females, that is the time that you will know if you are gay. Until then, there is no reason to give it a though. No body cares except idiots and very stupid people who are filled with fear. Good luck
2006-10-07 20:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 20 year old bi female that is happily married to my wife. I went through the same thing but eariler than 14. I am not saying that makes you gay but what I am saying is that everyone has wondered what it is like to be with someone of the same sex. EVERYONE! Some just choose to act and others don't. There is nothing wrong with being curious because it is part of growing up. Just remember that being gay is not wrong nor is being straight. It is simply a choice of perference. So don't worry bud...it is okay.
2006-10-07 22:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by mr/ms_romance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God says, why try and label yourself. If you enjoy each other's company then that's fine. You won't know yet until you are older if you will be attracted to women or not, or even if this is just a one time deal with your friend. So give it more time so that you can learn more about yourself in the process. Also, remember your friend may see things differently to you and might not want an answer to this question at all. God says, walk, dont run.
2006-10-07 20:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by God 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is perfectly normal for people of your age.
I am glad you enjoyed the experience.
It indicates that you have not let yourself be influenced by outside opinion. In itself it means you have overcome a major taboo, even though you might not have realized the taboo existed.
I think that it is unlikely that the taboo (and the associated feelings of guilt) will ever be re-established in you. Consequently you will always be more open to gay/bi sexuality than many other of your fellows. I think this is a good thing, as it will allow you to live a fuller life.
In the meantime, carry on experimenting, some of my best memories are of things that I did when I was your age. Enjoy.
2006-10-07 20:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is COMPLETELY normal to experience this. No it does not mean you are gay. You could VERY well go up to be a very straight male.
On the other hand yes, you might be gay now. That is not to say you will not be straight later in life.
2006-10-07 20:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe but give it some time. You are at an age where it is normal to experiment. Are you interested in girls or do they make only good friends? Anyway, if you are then you are and make an effort to accept yourself.
2006-10-07 20:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by Cichlid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be, but your at the age of experimenting, you might decide it was cool and nice but you want something else, and then you might decide that is what you want, just go with it and do not look to deep into it at your age
2006-10-07 20:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by Finally home 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. It's natural to experiment and have these feelings when you're going through puberty. Just be attracted to whomever you're attracted to and don't worry about labeling yourself.
2006-10-07 20:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry i've fooled around with a girl before (i'm a girl) and i've went out with boys before. I've fooled around with girls a lot these days. I fooled around with my sister. and when i was in 2nd grade i fooled around with my best friend.
2006-10-07 20:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by boycrazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to decide. This is experimentation but go with what you like and what feels comfortable. BE CAREFUL!
2006-10-09 10:33:49 · answer #11 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋