not just when i'm lying about something, but even when i just like the person, even before the fancying stages
2006-10-07 12:25:43 · 13 answers · asked by Brutal_Yet_Beautiful 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
you have got something to hide
2006-10-07 12:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well I have a disorder that effects how I act and behave. Maybe you have a disorder? Mine effects how I think and act, but also how i interact with people, like not being able to look into their eyes. Mine has these effects:-
*Poor language processing, use and understanding
literality
*Parrot talk and scripted language
*Repetition
*Diffculty maintaining a topic of conversation
*Social difficulties
*Talks around a subject rather than about it
*Shyness and unable to keep eye contacy
*Doesn't like to show emotions (seems emotionless)
*May have small obessions.....perfectionist?
This is only an idea but maybe this can help. I do also have low self asteem but that is probably because the lack of attention and help I should get and that my parents have only just found out why im like this after 17 years...
2006-10-07 19:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by Rikku 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low self esteem and insecurity ... also throw in some shyness. Just remember that MOST people have insecurities and do not have a full quota of self esteem and they are as insecure as you are... only they may not be as shy about facing people. To over come this trait... make a resolution to start out each day and look one person in the eyes while you interact with that person... then after a few days ... make it two persons... and get use to it. Each day assess your feelings and the reactions of yourself and the other persons while you looked into their eyes. Keep increasing the total until you are comfortable with looking everyone in the eyes while interacting with them. Good Luck!
2006-10-07 19:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Callie Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a subconscious self- esteem issue. I know I use to be afraid to look into people's eyes sometimes because I think under it all I thought I wasnt really good enough in a weird way. You just have to peel away from that and practice. Force yourself to look up, even if its just for a few moments.
2006-10-07 19:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be shy or a little lacking in confidence, the eyes are the window to your soul, use them to look deep into any ones eyes and you will see the real person, never be scared of doing that.
2006-10-07 19:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never mind all the nonsence about low self esteem. It takes practice, just do it. I remember when I was a kid and my dad said I didn't look a doctor in the eye when he was talking to me, it made me determined to look everyone in the eye ever since. Look up and be proud!
2006-10-07 19:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by Man_of_Aran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many explanations for this but it may simply be that you are a very modest person who casts their eyes down, there is nothing wrong with that and it may protect you from any unwanted aggression from others.
2006-10-11 09:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by Gamall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would agree with the comments about low self esteem. but if thats the case then remeber that the fact you feel this proves you are a better person. self aware is good
2006-10-07 19:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by luke_buk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness
2006-10-07 19:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Complex or guilty feeling or low self esteem or scare about others personality status.
2006-10-07 19:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by mswathi1025 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes other people's eyes are so intense they intimidate it's a form of eye bulling and judgment.
2006-10-07 19:30:37 · answer #11 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋