I am so in love with him,and he seems to share the same feelings...well we have already been 2 years together.but sometimes I feel him 1million miles away,what can I do to improve our relationship,cause I don`t want routine to distroy our relationship.
2006-10-07 12:14:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what did u do at the beginning of your relationship,to make it last?did you go out at places you both liked?why don´t you do it again?
how was sex at the beginning?probably not always the same,cause at that time,you didn`t know eachother so well...and every time it was something new...why don`t you try something new now?seduce him again like you did it at that time,tease him,striptease for him.surprize him every day...with little things that will grow big in his heart.
redecorate your home,if you live together,not all of it ,but some small things.a change can never hurt,if it`s done at the right place...just be happy every time you see him,and let him know that...do what you feel like,and you will see the routine won`t make you grow apart anymore,cause if you try to change things,there won`t be such thing in your relationship as "routine" or "boring"...
so good luck.
2006-10-07 12:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you're trying too hard. Sometimes when a girl wants a guy so bad, it can feel really overwhelming, suffocating, causing the guy to want to back off. Perhaps the best thing that you can do is to just take a step back, and relax. Don't worry so much - don't try to fix things, make it special, just be natural. Do things with your other friends, go do some volunteer work somewhere - don't make yourself so available to him. Don't be gamey about it, just be concerned about you. I think he will begin to appreciate you more, when he sees that there is more to you than just your "needing" him. You say that you don't want routine to destroy your relationship - yet, routine doesn't have to be boring. If you become more interesting by expanding the things you do for yourself, if the relationship was meant to be, he will take notice, and then something can happen. Don't try to nag him or fix him or complain about it -- do what you can to make yourself happy with you. Good luck!
2006-10-07 19:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by amuse4you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if there is a real problem here, or if there are times he just needs to be "within himself".
I am near 50, and have learned over the years that there are times in every relationship where two people just don't connect at the same level as they usually do. If it passes within a day or two, then don't worry about it, unless it happens very frequently.
I know there are places within my hubby I just can't go, and it is the same for him with me. We just acknowledge it, and support each other.
Talk to him about what you are feeling, and see if you can figure out if it's a problem, or a normal part of a relationship.
Good luck!
2006-10-07 19:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk and to your man and ask him what he thinks..tell him that u love him but u want a closer relationship and ask him his opinion...trust me talking helps alot and by not knowing what he wants or him not knowing what u want, that can solve alot of ur issues
2006-10-07 19:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mix it up a little; put some variety in the game and grab his attention!
2006-10-07 19:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Guinevere 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when the time is right love him, simply love him.
2006-10-07 19:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him his space dont push or pressure
2006-10-07 19:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by weirded out 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
change your routine every week or so
2006-10-07 19:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry so much.
2006-10-07 19:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋