You know what I mean..where you try to be social and break out of your shell and when you do, you come off as the "nice" person who is the "shoulder to cry on" the "dependable" and "loyal" one, so much so, that when all you were trying to do was "take it slow" that it became TOO slow apparently and you developed a "good friend" instead of a relationship, and now that you're "good friends" that's all it will ever be because he/she doesn't want to "lose your friendship". What is all that ABOUT anyway, and how do you fix it? I don't NEED anymore "good friends" I need a girl in my bed for a PURPOSE if you get what I'm saying.
2006-10-07 11:57:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
IF this is happening to you often, your initial approach is off base. OR, you may be consistently going after those who you don't turn on. This line is used by everyone who likes you but has no sexual interest...it is just a line. Instead of making friends, go after people to hop in bed the first date..then you will know if there is a sexual interest and not waste time. The short cut is the surest cut. All this "friendship first" stuff is for the birds. Why waste time if it isn't going to happen? Good luck (Goldwing110083..the real one, but you knew that already)
2006-10-07 13:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are saying. You answered your own question. You take things too slow. I always thought, though, that for a relationship to last you SHOULD lay a solid foundation of friendship. This way you get to know the person first instead of just jumping into bed with them, right away. It would seem that you are taking too long to get from point a ( friendship) to point B (dating.) Make it clear from the start that you would like MORE than friendship by flirting from the start and not taking so long to ask for a date.
2006-10-07 19:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The difference is in purpose you need to flirt form the start then you will be able to take it slow but flirting constantly makes no mistake about where this is heading.
2006-10-07 20:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn being friendly into flirtatious. good friends are hard to find but a bed partner is easier.
2006-10-07 19:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Langdon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight with them and say you want to be more than friends......ask them out!!!!!
2006-10-07 19:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by mitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait are you a girl????
2006-10-07 19:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by secretlove_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell are you talking about?
2006-10-07 19:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by edder319 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goldwing1...is exactly right
2006-10-07 21:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by Bearable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are sick, you need a psychologist
2006-10-07 19:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋