Why don't some ex-girlfiends get the hint. She texts him. He doesn't Text back. She writes to him. He doesn't write back. She turn's up at the front door. He doesnt open it. He has moved on had a family and is really happy so why doesn't she get and back off befor she gets hurt. How can can he get rid of her.
2006-10-07 11:53:26 · 17 answers · asked by hatfieldnomi 2 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
I feel I should make it more clear. His current girlfriend trust him. He always shows her the text and tells her when she calls. He dumped this girl three yrs ago and is really happy with is life he has a new baby and life couldn't be better. The ex just wont back off. Trust me when I say he loves his girlfriend and their baby. We have never seen him so happy.
2006-10-07 12:10:02 · update #1
unfortunately some people are just like this. i have been there myself, him telling her just wasnt enough. in the end we saved all the messages and letters and went to the police to report her for harassment, it was a harsh thing to do but at the end of the day thats what it is if its unwanted and she has been told not to do it. unless she is looking for trouble it will stop
2006-10-07 11:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should either change his phone & cell numbers, and/or file a restraining order. Second suggestion would be, to have both him & his new girlfriend talk to her.
However, in my general opinion - even the dumbest of the dumb don't stalk boys, unless he gave them a reason to. No matter what he tells the new girlfriend. And, if he was that in love with the new girlfriend...the new g/f would be his new wife. Especially if they have a baby together! It takes 9-10 months of pregnancy for a man to decide how much he loves his family - but yet, he chose to have an easy out and not get married.
2006-10-07 13:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously still has some very strong feelings for him and she sounds like shes hurting. If they were together a long time, it can be hard to let go of someone even if perhaps she was the one to end the relationship. If he really wants her to leave him alone, I would suggest instead of ignoring her he should speak to her to talk through any unresolved issues she feels they have. She probably doesn't want him back buy may just need to talk to him and have closure before she can move on. Also, I think it is for her ex-boyfriend to handle it without the new partners getting too involved.
The people in our pasts make us who we are today.
Hope that helps
2006-10-07 12:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by peonies76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often honesty is the best policy, just have a quiet word with her, tell her that although she is a very nice person and you had some great times together, you have now moved on and have a family of your own. Tell her she will find someone else and have a family as she is a very nice person.
Hopefully this way, she will stop pestering you and you will not have hurt her feelings too much.
2006-10-07 12:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mighty-Tigers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get rid of her. You obviously had something special. Either you really listened to her and connected at a higher level - or maybe you were just really good in bed.
The only time this girl will give up on you is when she's found herself another man. But don't try and find one for her - she'll only try and organise a menage-a-trois (and not the nice kind).
2006-10-07 11:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by mark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems really obsessed it will be difficault to get rid of her without help had this problem once b4 the only way you can do it is if you claim she is a risk to you and your family and get a restriction order on her! People like this don't get the hint they need a bit more im afraid!
2006-10-07 12:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-22 11:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe next time you should tell her its over before you move on....
... move on before she gets hurt? Id say shes already hurt and that sounds quite threatening
she will soon wake up to herself and think herself lucky,
she may seem like a stalker but it sounds like theres a bit of this story missing
2006-10-07 12:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by miz Destiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to find paying a lunatic about 10 grand does the job you will never hear from her again lol
2006-10-07 11:55:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just straight up tell her in the face is the only way instead of ignoring her cuz there's still hope that she feels but when she's turned down straight up by the man then she loses all hope
2006-10-07 12:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by chris g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋