i don't get it. i check out guys and date them, but i know that i could never have sex with a guy. but sometimes i find myself being attracted to women. so what does that make me?
2006-10-07 11:38:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
adqan or whatever your name is: i'm a chick. not a guy.
to everyone esle: i want to spend the rest of my life with someone i love but i'm confused on whether it should be a man or a wowan. and no, i'm not drunk or on drugs.
2006-10-07 11:48:44 · update #1
i never said i liked to have sex with women!! i'm a virgin!!
2006-10-07 11:50:01 · update #2
In reality only you can answer that questions.
I believe we are all bi to some extent.
2006-10-07 11:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by arvis3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age. In late teens it is normal to experiment and be confused about who you are attracted to. If you are gay it won't be a choice but you might only know for sure later in life. Go with your feelings, if you are attracted to women experiment with one and see how that makes you feel.
2006-10-07 20:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by Cichlid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just makes you curious-which is pretty normal-you might be gay-you might not-you sound young-you should wait before you try to find out by having sex-I know your probably confused ,but why not just enjoy being attracted to all sorts of people- you have to worry about college and pre paring for a future,you have plenty of time in the future for sex..;)
2006-10-07 18:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't plan to form a relationship with a man, why would you date them? Isn't this just a tease? If you continue to do this, make it clear you are interested only in a platonic relationship.
If you have or desire sex with both men and women, you are bi; if you have or desire sex only with men you are gay. It's really that simple!
2006-10-07 18:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just fall in love with who ever you fall in love with. Why limit yourself to either or. I Love both at the moment and that is hard becasue my wife doesn't know I am in love with a man. Even though I am also in love with her. I will be divorcing her soon. It tears me up inside too. But you can not help who you fall in love with. I didn't go looking for a guy to fall in love with it just happened. If she would be ok with it I would stay married to her and have my guy on the side but I can't love her an him with out them both knowing so I have to end our marriage to have my guy. My guy is also bisexual so I may have other women in my life as he is free to do as well. We have an open relationship so we may even have other men in our lives but we know we are soul mates so at the end of the day we know who we are going home to.
2006-10-07 19:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell if your a guy or a girl. Are you a guy that's gone out with guys but not to bed, yet your attracted to women? Or are you a woman that's gone out with guys, yet never gone to bed with one, yet your attracted to women? I think you'd probably have to experiement and go to bed with one or the other or both if your that confused and try and figure it out that way. BUT IT SOUNDS LIKE YOUR BI SEXUAL TO ME.
2006-10-07 18:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by You'llneverguess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes you a full human being whose body knows instinctively that there are many desires in life, and none are bad except those that hurt people. Open up and do not worry.
2006-10-08 16:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by bot_parody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a lesbian,but I do like boys,as a simple friend.
I have a idea
clode your eyes,try to think only about one of them,start with boys.try to figure their shape,their smell,their touch,but try not to judge.
then finish it,open your eyes and close it again,this time imagine a girl,the smell,the touch,the shape.
which was more attractive? you should be with that!
besides,forget about the names,gay or bisexual.the fact is to love and learning to love.so try to love the right person,forget about his/her sexuality
2006-10-07 18:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by someone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like to me you're confused about sex period. its more of what you're feeling than having someone explain it to you. i think you should dig deep and find out who you are and what makes you feel. then everything else will come along. good luck!
2006-10-07 19:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the person that counts not their sex. It makes you unsure. It's okay. You'll find the right person.
2006-10-07 20:44:35 · answer #10 · answered by jilli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋