Hi, i'm crazy crazy in love with my Best Friend.... I was always in love with her! We are the bestest of friends. She talks to me constantly about anything... And I do the same. We hang out more than we hang out with anyone else. We have this special relationship. I am in love with her. I told her that but she politely turned me down and thankfully our relationship is still the same. What do I do know??? I just can't forget her... She is always over my mind... Sometimes I think she IS in love with me.... Please help me... Im desperate and in love...!
2006-10-07 11:27:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you want her read this book immediately. Shakti Gawain's "Creative Visualization"
Or else talk about some other girl and see her reaction... to give you some indication about how she feels about you.
2006-10-07 11:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by prad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cares about you (maybe even loves you) as a platonic friend, not in a romantic way. You are obviously in love with her and you will lose her if you cross the line. Crossing the line is pushing her to love you romantically, which she does not. You said the "D: word which is Desperate. That word speaks for itself. That word brings on emotions in you that are very obvious in your behavior and will eventually make her uncomfortable. I predict the future of the two of you as follows: You will soon smother her with your desperateness or scare her with your obsessiveness. To prevent that, you need to accept her as a friend (with your mind, body and soul) or get out of the relationship because this will eventually drive you nuts and you'll lose her. Hate to tell you this because I feel sorry for you, but you cannot make someone feel the way you do. You just can't.
2006-10-07 11:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The " I can't get with you because we're such good friends" line is code word for " I'm just not physically attracted to you" I have 3 sisters and they were just talking about this same thing a couple of days ago! Move On!! Maybe she'll get jealous and kick down!
2006-10-07 11:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what is your age. But if I guess, I don't think you are in a marriage time. If so, for now you keep the relationship as it goes for now. And when you become little more big enough(I mean about 16 years) you can talk to her again. Or if you are little matured boy(like 15 or 16) then you can talk to her again in a nice romantic time so that she understand it.
2006-10-07 11:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by chunnu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She already made it clear that she does not feel the same as you do! She is not in love with you. So just leave it alone and continue your friendship. If you push her about loving you, you will lose her as even just a friend.
2006-10-07 11:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now which you suggested it. I won't cover it. I have been given love for you. I have been given loopy love for honey. i became saving it to the particular woman which will come later yet i'd desire to offer it to you and make it specific. lol. crazyyyyyy love.
2016-12-26 12:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep being her friend and one day she might just tell u she likes u. if she needs something then get it 4 her and stuff. maybe ask her if she want to go see a movie with u or something
2006-10-07 11:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she still likes you, then be patient, until she says something
But, if she doesn't like you, sadly, you're gonna have to find someone else.
2006-10-07 11:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it or else you will no longer have a best friend
2006-10-07 11:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her, if you're lucky enough to jump on something great she says about you it makes it easier :)
2006-10-07 11:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋