2006-10-07 11:14:57 · 12 answers · asked by tom h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to the father.
2006-10-07 11:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with it she apparently has her reasons, she is old enough to make her own decisions. Don't push her, keep communication open. Talk to her on the phone let her no that you love her. You need to also look at your self and see why she does not want to come home. Some thing that is so simple to you is terrible to her. Remember that she is a teenager.
My Ex and my now 15 year old do not get along. He started the divorce and was with a "friend" After the seperation who he suddenly became friends with months before the break up. But he will not consider her feelings. In his eyes he is the father and deserves her respect because he is her father. Wrong he lost her respect. Your daughter is a young adult and needs to be treated that way
2006-10-07 18:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does the custody paperwork say. If you have joint custody and there are no provision that stipulate that she can not live with him full time and he is permitted to take her out of state...you might want to talk to your attorney before you do anything stupid like trying to go and "snatch" her back...She's a teen so you have a very touchy situation on hand. If her father is providing for her and taking good care of here and she gets enrolled in school and such - there's not much you can do...If she's a drop out and he'd not taking care of her and she is getting into trouble...there is much you can do since she's a minor...Talk to your attorney...Record conversations and don't do anything that will make her take off and not contact either of you...Best wishes to you...
2006-10-07 18:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need more info before I could answer this properly... Is she mad at you??? she may cool off and come home on her own... Is the Dad's home a good enviroment??? If not and you have full custody... depending on what state your in you might could call the police and they would aid you in getting her... I would hate to be in your possition right now... If she has beena pain in the butt... maybe let her stay a while and trust me she'll become a pain in the butt at his house too and he pay send her home...
2006-10-07 18:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're her mother...and you and her father have gotten divoced...wouldn't she have a right by now to pick between you and him? If she doesn't and if she actually is assigned to you, maybe you should call him up and tell him that he better send her back. I'm not sure what you mean by this question...You didn't give much detail so I tried my best without it. Sorry.
2006-10-07 18:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by Lina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pressure her, but you can say, you miss her, and hope that she decides to come home soon. Try and keep the conversation about her, and all of her activities, say I love you so much, and miss you even more! leave it at that! I know this must be very hard for you, but keep praying, and hope for the best for her.
2006-10-07 18:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find out why she doesn't want to come back to your home.
Maybe there is a good reason for it.
Try talking to her and her father to see what you can find out, and what you can do to fix your relationship.
2006-10-07 18:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want her to be happy hopefully!
Be more compassionate during these developing emotional years.
Love cures all!
2006-10-07 18:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by Chloe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell her that if she doesent come home that you'll beat her a.ss. But thats if you didn't do anything wrong. If you did well.......................... talk to her
2006-10-07 18:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by The REBELution! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes happy where shes at leave her be
2006-10-07 18:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by nights_an_whitesatin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋