my friends keep dissing me?

Question

my ... "friends" keep on dissing me and my clothes!!! i got these really cute brown ballet flats that lace up your calf, and one day when i wore them, they were like "WHY ARE YOU WEARING THOSE??" when i said cuz i like them, the said "WELL, WHY ARE YOU WEARING THEM WHEN YOU KNOW THAT WE DONT?" and it's not like they aren't cute...lots of other ppl, who i didn't even know said they liked them

they ALWAYS do this

im sick of it....they always leave me out, then they treat me like an idiot, and one of them turned into a b*itch cuz i playfully hit her!! and she wouldn't talk to me for 2 days....

my mom says they always diss my style cuz im a size 0 and they're, like, 12, so they're jealous of me n my figure...

do u think that's true? should i just not be friends with them nemore?

also, like everyday, they wear tshirt and jeans...i wear cute skirts, cute tops, and jeans, but i make them look really cute (who CAN'T wear jeans)


ANYWAYS this is sumthin my mom told me to do the next time they ask about the shoes:
"oh, im sorry, i forgot to ask you if it was okay to wear them or not! how stupid of me!"

ok?

Answer 1

I say you wear what you want to. If you like them, then wear them. It is not what people wear that makes them. It is who you are inside my dear. If they haven't figured that out by now, then don't worry so much about what they think. People don't have to like everything, such as things you do or say. Each and everyone has thier own opinion. Even if they didn't like your flats, they don't have to be so rude.
I think that it must be because you don't dress like they do and yes, maybe you have something that they don't. Maybe they can't afford things such as you or they think they are better than you are.
I wouldn't worry yourself to much over what they think. Just ignore them or come back with well I like what your wearing. Give back possive vibes even though they don't. That will eat at them even more and maybe they will stop.
Same thing happen to me when I was younger. They have nothing against me now. And ohh how the life styles of some change over the years. Don't sweat it!

Answer 2

Honey, people are *******. At times there isn't much you can't go about it. This isn't one of those times. If they want to be friends with you (you heard right, friends with you), they need to treat you better. And it's you job to let them know that. They pick on you because you take it. They don't have to like your choices in fashion. But your attention and time are important. Respect yourself and let the fair weather friends pass in the wind.

Answer 3

it probably is jealousy just tell them first off i didnt buy these shoes 4 u i bought them for me and if u dont like that you betta deal wit it. if they dont change they little i think im bad attitude get sum new frends. cuz them lil gurls once u leave them they gonna want you bak but dats there issue not yours bump them hataz. oh and as far as that whole hittin mess say all dem times u hit me nahh you aint fixin to come up in mi face wit all that drama. So Step! If they keep on at u just say y'all actin so triflin u know y'all need to stop!!!!

Answer 4

some friends you have.

try telling them, sometimes they just need reminders. tell them to stop making fun of you so much and it hurts your feelings.

if they still dont stop, just try not to hang out with them. get some new friends. just go up to whoever you think is nice, and say hi, then chat, then be friends, its that easy. but no one ever tries cause everyone is so afraid to look stupid.

just yesterday, i went to Costco bear footed. the manager came up to me and told me to leave. then i said can i at least buy this first. he said yes. when i got to the cashier and was about to pay for my stuff, i was short 3 dollars, so the cashier and the bagger pitch in 3 bucks. it was nice of them, so we talked and today were gonna go hang out somehwere. watch a movie or something, or to the parks to play football or soccer. something.

Answer 5

I agree with your mom, they probably are jealous. Start talking to girls at school that you admire or think are nice. After you start making friends with them, just "drift" away from your old friends. If they ask about it, just tell them how you feel and that if they don't want to change then you'd rather not be friends.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

your moms right about them being jelous of ur figure...HECK IM JELUOS lol jk but yeah no offense but thats a VERY stupid Q "should i be friends w/them?" HELL NO if theyre going to treat u like dirt u can find some other friends to chill with

Answer 8

I think you really shouldn`t care about what your friends think. Fashion is a very DIVERSE part of culture. Everyone has their own opinions. Tell them that they just have a diffrent sense of style than you, if they think you look ridiculous tell them to **** off and then find friends who appreciate how you dress. Because it`s your look and you dictate who you are, not your "friends".

Answer 9

If they are like that towards you with what you wear; they don't like you for you. They just like you for your appeareance. They don't deserve a friend like you if that is the way they want to treat you. Friends should like you for what is on the inside of your body, not the outside.

Answer 10

I'd have to agree with your mom, they are jealous of you. If they don't stop, you should tell them, and find new friends. They are losing out. They will just keep taking advantage of you if you don't stand up for yourself.