My sister has her period but doesnt tell anyone. She hides it by wearing black jeans alot. I dont understand yy? I mean, she doesnt ask for pads/tampons EVER! I even have put pads in bathroom for her to take ans she sneaks them like its wrong. My mother has told my sister its not a bad thing and everyone goes through it but she still acts this way. I NEED ADVICE!!!! PLEASE!!!
p.s. shes 17
2006-10-07 11:07:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
when you guys say protect privacy-i m trying to say if we dont ask her/ or dont put pads in bathroom she wont use anything!!! we arent going to be there for the rest of her life and put pads in the bathroom. Even wen she uses pads she hids the used ones EWWW
2006-10-07 11:14:39 · update #1
When i first got my period, i acted somewhat like your sister. and that was mainly because I was embarrassed and didn't want to have my period yet. but now im perfectly fine. so just give her time... shell eventually see she is ruining all her undies and clothes. loll
2006-10-07 11:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by hippiechild 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some human beings have short classes, some human beings have "common" length classes and a few human beings have long classes. It truly relies upon on each and every guy or woman's physique. i've got had classes as long as yours or maybe longer. actually, the longest era I had lasted an entire month. some human beings (which includes myself) have overactive ovaries, and that i administration by taking beginning administration which provides me the consistency i've got been loss of existence to have for years. additionally, some people who bleed each and every of the time have endometriosis. while you're having decrease belly pains continuously and it quite is truly not the 1st time you have had a protracted era, then evaluate going to the well being care expert. don't be too alarmed. each and every so often classes final longer than customary, or they pass a month or they are super short, and so forth.
2016-10-15 23:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by woodworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her. Tell her that it is normal. Tell her that she will bleed through her pants one day and that she will be so embraced. It will be a hard way, but something that is needed. I hid my period for 1 day, but now I use pads and tampons. Maybe she is embraced about it. have a friend talk to her. They can talk some scenes into her. Someone will notice it when her underwear starts smelling like blood.
2006-10-07 11:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like your sister is very modest. I know that it took me a long time to feel comfortable about having my period. I don't think there is anything that you personally can do for her. This is something that she is going to have to work thru herself. I think the more pressure she receives the more likely she is to retreat about it. I would let her be and she will come around. If she doesn't...then that is her issue.
2006-10-07 11:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by foxiegixxergurl2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why she is hiding it but maybe that is her way of dealing with it, it sounds like you and your mom have already said and done all you can do, just leave her be and if she needs anything, I'm sure she would come to you guys. Good Luck
2006-10-07 11:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by barefootmodel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 17 years old, there is definitely something WRONG with her not using ANYTHING while she is having her period! She needs to be seen by a counselor.
2006-10-07 13:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by gator girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she's just embarassed about it. I would just let her do her thing, her way. And if you and your mom keep doing it your way, in a relaxed way.. talking, joking about it.. Maybe she'll calm down and relax about it too.
2006-10-07 11:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jessette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is shy about it...she is finding it difficult, some girls do't like to talk about it, it's bad enough getting them, let alone talk about them, it's probably all new to her....is it? she needs time to adjust to the fact that she is now a young woman.....bless her
2006-10-07 11:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something has given her the idea that mentruating is a bad thing, something to be ashamed of. she needs to talk to a counselor.
2006-10-07 11:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
respect her privacy ....
it does not require public announcement ya know...
help her with her needs as best you can and let be what is
2006-10-07 11:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋