it is really hard for a bi like me not opened to have a love or partner? am depressed now that i saw my guy love with her girl? just now i saw and am very depreesed..what is a good advice for me?
2006-10-07 10:36:34 · 8 answers · asked by Student 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
it hard when u live in a muslim country to find it here right? what can i do?
2006-10-07 10:41:35 · update #1
I think being bisexual it is hard for monosexuals to understand us We have an abiding need for both sexes it is not somethign we can turn off. I love my wife and make love to her often but she is not a man and I need a man too. This is why we will be getting a divorce soon. The best situation for a bisexual is to be in an open relationship with another bisexual this is why my g0y mate is also a bisexual he is widowed and understands the need for male/female sex as much as we need male/male sex. This is why we will have a completely open relationship. We have already discussed it and we will have seperate bedrooms in our house so that when we are in a relationship with a woman or a man we can bring them home and not worry about haveing to be inconvienceing our partner. We will have privacy in our own rooms. We just know that we love each other and we have a bond for life with each other.
2006-10-07 11:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure I understand what you are asking, or what has gone down. IF your male lover made love to a girl in front of you, you are feeling threatened and jealous...no need, this is a waste of emotion and pain. Relax, IF you intend to continue down this path, you have to toughen up, realize that sex is just sex, not particularly a sharing of emotion. SEX is far better when it is also emotional, but .... different strokes for different folks. IF you feel that you are not going to be able to handle this kind of affair, perhaps it is time to step back, examine your life style, make up your mind what you really want and pursue that course. Open relationships are NOT for everybody. IF you cannot have what you want with this guy (or girl, not really sure what you are saying), then it is time to consider moving on to find what is right for YOU..not others who cast aspersions and judge. Be true to yourself and all will work out in time. Good luck and peace.
2006-10-07 17:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you really live in a muslin country the first thing I'd do is move out before you are hanged or shot!
2006-10-07 20:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
step back, take a closer look and move on. you have the power to make changes! But don't try to be a martyr!
2006-10-07 18:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by Fabulous, young and broke! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up. You will be fine. This will not be the last time this happens to you.
2006-10-09 10:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there. Things will get better. :)
2006-10-07 17:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eather kill them or get a girlfriend. you sed you where bi, so that wouldn`t be a problem for you, unless you are not bi, but all gay.
2006-10-07 17:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
God didn't intend for sinners to be happy breaking his laws.
Why not turn your life around before you get sick and can't serve him.
2006-10-07 17:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋