2006-10-07 10:36:20 · 13 answers · asked by Mandi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
THE PERSON HAVING CHILDREN WANTS TO SPEND TIME WITH 19 YEARS OLD GIRL WHY I COULD NOT UNDERSTAND IF HIS WIFE WANTS TO SPEND TIME WITH 18 YEARS BOY WHETHER HE ALLOW HER?
2006-10-07 14:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why??? I assume the 19 year old child in question is the husband's child from his earlier marriage. She has equal right to her father's affection as her step mother's child from her earlier marriage. These things should have been settled prior to the marriage. In second marriages, with both spouses having children from earlier marriages, it is expected that both partners should look after both their children with equal love and affection. If in the process of spending time with his 19 years old child from his earlier marriage, the husband isn't neglecting his second wife's child from her earlier marriage, then her behaviour is not only unreasonable. It is selfish as well.
2006-10-09 01:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its natural. How old is your second marriage ? This should have thought before, Ok now watch your hubby action & if doubtful get your unmarried 19 year old to get married soon.
2006-10-09 05:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by narendra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any harm in it as longs as it's not taking all the time away from his wife.Besides when there is a second marriage they both know before you get married that there is kids rather married or single kids.
2006-10-07 17:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by tiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont forget the child abuser and molesters out there keep your eyes wide open for things going on..its ok to be protective if hes not the real father..guys are bad these days lovers of the world instead of lovers of god.....
2006-10-07 19:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by weezybaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sad,just because you get married again,you don't turn your back on the kids,love them as always,don't let that happen to you get wife straight on this,I am sure she spends time with her kids also.
2006-10-07 17:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be there is something in the husband that she doesnt want 19 yr old to learn
2006-10-09 00:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the new wife, your child comes first for always and forever
2006-10-07 17:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by ebosgramma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman is cold and hard hearted. she is behaving in an irrational manner. the husband should try and make her understand. if she refuses, he should leave her as this, many, in future lead to trouble.
2006-10-07 18:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by samarthmohan_iitb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's her problem --- dads generally spend time with their kids whether they are married or single.
2006-10-07 17:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋