My mother and I are both very analytical people. Sometimes we may over- analyze something. We are not like?

Question

this on purpose, this is just how we are. It can get really complicated sometimes. Can being analytical or over-analizing be a sign of something more serious like a personality disorder or something?

Answer 1

No.

I would say analyse that but, I would be upset if you spent hours thinking, is he being misleading, cryptic or something else...

Some people analyse things more, and it's needed thats why there are career paths which require these qualities, Systems Analyst.

I guess your one of those people (whom I'm included) that figue out plot lines before the film gives all the clues, or a subtle clue that most around you miss.

As for personality disorder, a hypochondriac would think it would lead to paranoia. (This was tongue in cheek).

Answer 2

It can be, but not necessarily -- since it's also a common personality trait.

The very fact you are considering the possibility it could be a problem is a good sign, as those who over-analyze often do not recognize what's going on. And although you did not write a long question, many people with destructively analytical natures would have worded their question differently (it would have been very structured and precise, where your question was more casual) -- so I am not inclined to see your problem as an official "disorder."

Analyzing something is a good thing. It helps you to avoid careless mistakes or taking a wrong turn. It becomes harmful only when it prevents you from getting necessary things done, or keeps you from getting necessary rest, or starts to ruin your relationships and really frustrate anyone who must deal with you.

Since you are aware that you over-analyze, this is a big help for you. When you catch yourself thinking too much, ask yourself what the "most probable" answer or reason for something and tell yourself it's okay to act on that answer.

And that, even if you make a mistake, you can compensate and it's not the end of the world.

If you're really stuck, get some advice until you "calibrate" your mind to recognize when you should just take something at face value and can stop thinking further about it.

Answer 3

I wish there were some way to answer your question with one or two lines. Alas, there is not.

As a Communications Trainer, one of the more challenging aspects of my job is how to instruct people of one communication style, on:

-How to identify people who communicate differently than you.
-How to alter your style of communication, so that what you wish to convey is better received by someone who communicates differently than you.
-How to choose words to more effectively communicate with a style other than your own.

Regardless of a person's personality characteristics, they also exemplify a tendency to communicate using communication characteristics respresented by their personality type.

If an Analyzing communicator is presenting ideas to an Advocating style, there are likely going to be walls that prevent the communication from being effective.

For example: you are analyzing, talking to an advocating style. You believe that you've presented the best information if you use thorough research and details. However, and Advocating style is bored by your fine research and detail, and stops listening as soon as you start presenting the details. His mind is off exploring something else. Your details aren't colorful enough to keep his attention. See what I'm getting at?

Regardless of whether or not your tendency to overanalyze could be classified as any type of personality disorder, learning to compensate for your personality type by enhancing your communication skills can limit the problems that your analyzing nature can create.

The key is to listen to how others communicate!!!

-Hear what types of words they choose to use. Do they use many adjectives? Are the adjectives colorful, or are they forceful, or subtle?

-Do they focus their verbiage on certain senses, like: I hear what you're saying, or I see what you mean, or I understand.

- What is their energy level when they communicate. Are they jumping out of their seat when they're explaining something? Are they very reserved, using little body language?

-Do they use a lot of power when they communicate, or just a little bit of power?

If you take the time to observe another's communication style, and adapt your communication style to theirs, then you will more effectively communicate your thoughts. And, your analyzing personality won't hinder your relationships.

Good luck!

Answer 4

i dont belive so .. im very analytical .. extremely every move i make or decision is analyzed and thought of over ando over again .. even about the smallest thing like going to get gas for my car .. how long is it going to take.. what if i dont wantto get gas and spend money somewhere else.. do i need it or not .. and then if i make a decision i analyze why i chose that decision .. i think i may be over analyitcal after writing this.. good question though .... course now i think there is a disorder..

Answer 5

You are not personality disorder until you obsess. This sentence has 8 words in it which is the numbe for completeness and wholeness. This suggests my answer is complete and whole or possibly that I am. If it is the answer, then you are safe with following its deep philophical intention. If it is I, then you need to realize that I have offered deep and philosphical advice from the depths of my wisdom. Since there are two possibliities i.e. me and the answer, it is meant for the two of you. Two is the number for certainty for what must be.
Thus you are covered with 8 and 2 by
(Sounds to me like you are your mother's second child. Enjoy it and have fun!_
The 7th Son

Answer 6

i am overly analytical like that. i think it's got something to do with the innate need for safety and our need to search for something that's secure and guarenteed to be always secure. i don't think it's got anything to do with a personality disorder or anything, but i could be wrong, since i have a distrust for everyone, even people i'm close to.

Answer 7

it is not a disorder unless you and/or the ones around you suffer considerably because of it. But still, it's not a disorder.

Answer 8

No, you are just smart enough to come up with all the different angles for things.

Answer 9

yes. it is a serious personality disorder. it's called indeterminism.