He was so nice, so I can't hate him. Besides, I sort of LIKE thinking about him and being sad.. It's so weird..!!
2006-10-07 10:06:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
move on and find a new bf
2006-10-07 10:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going through the same right now and its been a long time now...u know,it needs very long until a broken heart heals.sometimes even for ever,but it will get better after a while and u will handle the pain u feel so strong a little better..but it all needs time.
dont break yourself with trying to get back to him..try to think about the bad times,about things he did which hurted u.i know how hard it is.and it seems to hurt for ever,it feels like the pain, the thoughts and all the good memories will never go away.but like i said after a while u will find a way to make u handle all this!!!
i hope u will find this way very soon!!!
2006-10-07 18:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by starlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it a day at a time. I'm in a similar process at the moment, but I think we might stay friends or even work this out. Just take each day as it comes, savor the moments you shared together. When you find someone new all will be forgotten and you will smile again!
P.S. When you love someone, thinking about them whether it makes you happy or sad is irrelevant, they are the most important person in your life at that moment.
2006-10-07 17:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Aquaduck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun but the only thing that will make you get over someone is time. I know what you mean about liking to think about something even though it makes you sad. It's like you'd rather think about it even though it makes you sad than not think about it at all and let it be forgotten.
I wish you luck and I hope your heart heals soon!
2006-10-07 17:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by Amaya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only time will heal your pain.
You have to understand that regardless of how strong your heart might be for him. It is apparently not mutual. Therefore a relationship would not be able to work out or continue.
It is not really that weird at all. It is actually very normal.
2006-10-07 17:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really do need to move on if for nothing else but for your frame of mind. Do not give this bloke the satisfaction of knowing you still like him. Get together with a group of your girlfriends and go shopping.
2006-10-07 17:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by chriisie2110 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you need to get over it cause you are going to be the one that gets hurt out of it
2006-10-07 17:09:35 · answer #7 · answered by bonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya just have to get over him,u don't wanna be with someone who don't wanna be with you... there are more men in this world...
2006-10-07 17:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by ooo_sw33t_ooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋