I am 14 and i got a baby.?

Question

I don't know why peopel sya it's bad i say if you like babes then have one!!!no matter the age :) so ym question is why do poeple get mad when younger peopel have babies. Do you agree?

Answer 1

Your'e 14! My GOD! Your'e just a baby yourself! Being this young can destroy your freedom from enjoying your young life. Being a mother this young is a huge responsibility. You have to put all your time and effort for this child. Next thing... You have to be a role model for your kid. Let your child grow up being respectful and good- mannered. They'll thank you for it later! Good Luck

Answer 2

They get mad at a 14 year old (well maybe it's not mad - it's discust because their so young and couldn't keep their legs shut) I mean a 14 year old is still a child - they've only been a teen-ager for 2 years - I mean you just got out of grammer school a couple years ago. What the hell's the matter with you?? Did you even get your high school diploma??? And your probably living off Welfare (which by the way if you are - I'm paying part of your expenses every month) or your living (and bothering) your poor parents. Are you supporting this baby and going to work every day and have your own apartment????? THIS IS WHY PEOPLE GET MAD WHEN CHILDREN HAVE BABIES - BECAUSE THEY END UP (NORMALLY THE PARENTS OF THE 14 YEAR OLD) END UP WATCHING THE BABY WHEN THEY SHOULD BE OUT OF THAT BABY STAGE AND WAITING ANOTHER 15 YEARS BEFORE THEY HAVE A BABY (I'M TALKING ABOUT A GRANDCHILD BABY) WHICH IT WOULD BE -BUT ABOUT 15 YEARS BEFORE IT'S ACTUALLY SUPPOSED TO BE HERE. YOU'VE GOT ALOTO F GROWING UP TO DO.
I'M CURIOUS - E-MAIL ME AND TELL ME IF YOU LIVE AT HOME, OR WHERE YOU LIVE, IF YOU HAVE A JOB OR IF YOU MUCHING OFF OF THE STATE - I'M JUST CURIOUS WHAT'S YOUR SITUATION - AND IF YOU HAVE A GOOD EXCUSE FOR ASKING "WHY DO PEOPLE GET MAD WHEN 14 YEAR OLDS HAVE BABIES"? - YOU KNOW HOW TO GET AHOLD OF ME - JUST CLICK ON MY CAT'S PICTURE AND IT'LL TAKE YOU TO THE CORRECT PAGE TO SEND ME AN E-MAIL. I'M CURIOUS HOW MATURE YOU ARE AT 14. HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU - YOU BIG MATURE 14 YEAR OLD MOTHER.

Answer 3

Well, only being 14 is why you don't understand what the problems are. You haven't lived long enough to understand what raising a child will be like for you. Here's just a short list of why people don't like children having children:

1) You aren't supporting yourself so the true responsibilitiy is falling on someone else....
2) No matter how much you like babies, you must be in a position to take care of their needs for the next 18 years. They only stay 'babies' for a short time.
3) Where's the father?????
4) Did you finish highschool? or GED?
5) How are you being supported - by the government??
6) It will be harder for you to cope with being a single mother as your child gets older and needs become more.

Just too many negatives to list - you haven't even completed your own childhood yet....lots of luck to you.... I hope you have a really supportive family unit because it will make all the difference.

Answer 4

First of all YOU are still a baby youngin' you probably have to go to a specail school to take care of yo kid, or your parents do, and I know damn well you ain't married, if you are Christian you are proably going "down there" cuz da Bible says you need to wait till your married, plus you have proably only had your period for no more thatn like 5 years so you not fully developed if u know what I mean, if your 14 you just became a teenager last year! your in the freakin 8th or 9th grade and when you baby is 10 you will only be 24!!!! people will think you are her sister!!!! Yeah you proably think I don't care what other people think. right wll hun you are still a baby, kid, and if some people like your parents are helping you to take care of you kid then your not ready, cuz two people a married couple should be able to take care of their kid ALONE!!! If I were you I would put my baby up for adoption so my baby's life wouldn't be a living hell. Psshh I you are just one year over the legal age to baby sit!!! oh, and you an kiss your dream of having a good job goodbye cuz you cannot go to college with a baby and I know your parents aren't gunna take care of that kid 4ever..... i wouldn't

Answer 5

I definatley dont agree that babies should be having babies. Just because you like babies doesnt mean you should have one, there is alot more to it than that. You need to be able to support them and help them physically, emotionally, spiritually, intellectually grow, and how can you do this if your not finished growing yourself? All humans should have the chance to grow up in a loving home with resposible parents who are stable in every way themselves, if you cant understand why people get mad when WAYYYYY younger people have kids, then it prolly means your too young to have a baby yourself, too bad its too late. How are you supposed to finish school? have a job to support the baby and still spend quaility time with your baby and to teach the baby new things?(because we definately dont need more people on welfare!! its not fair to the rest of us who pretty much pay for it in our taxes while you just get to sit around on your ***) and if you think that at 14 you already know everything in the world and highschool and maybe even college cant teach you more, you're wrong!! if you need more answers to why it pisses people off to have babies when they're so young, let me know...ive got tons of answers!

Answer 6

OMG babies having babies! really you should have waited, I'm a single father of two. both are in school, but are a handfull at home, and I'm 38! now most of life will pass you by when you are at the age to be living it, and by the time you are able to make something of yourself, you will be too old.

from an experianced parent to a new one, hope you like Barney, the wiggles, Teletubbies, and missing out on fun with people your own age.

Answer 7

Teens should enjoy those years cause you never get them back. Go out and have fun before taking such a big step. Not all people are ready for that. Some people probably just think that you are pushing for other young people to have babies. Let them believe and say what they want. Ignore them. It's a personal choice and no one elses business.

Answer 8

Honestly, how responsible can you be at 14? You're either living with your parents still, with them likely doing half of the child-rearing, or you're struggling on your own. Your education is probably sufferring, or will be down the road. How at 14 can you financially support yourself and a baby? And how responsible/ mature is it of you to mooch off of family. It's ridiculous how many parents and grandparents are raising babies that belong to THEIR children and grandchildren. I think 14 is much to young to start raising your own babies.

Answer 9

Well it's because you are a child. and unles syou have funds you cannot care for a child. and other people don't like to leardn they are going to have ot care for a child as their irres[ponsibl;e daughter is going to have one. So How will you feed, house, dress, utilities, transportation, health, school, ect for your chi9ld.
The answer is you can't you can';t even drive,or work so how cvan you be responsible.
Now they not only have to worry about your child, but worry about your education, health(14 is too young to have children healthy wise), career and future.
But as it is too late take a lesson from this one and use birth control. And love the child .

Answer 10

No I don't agree. Your 14 and you have a baby. How do you feel about it? It's not the fact that you like babies, you can still like babies and have them when your capable of taking care of it. Your 14 with a baby and your a baby yourself. I know your parents are upset if not then they have a problem.