ive got parent issues like everyone else. my mom moves around from guy to guy she would go from a lawyer to a mechanic to a security guard than back to a lawyer all in one week. i normally wouldnt care because we have no relationship we dont talk at all. but the one guy she happens to love is a total asshole. im 15 and we just moved in a month ago. he gets into fullout fistfights with his 16year old son and i can hear the hole thing. i avoided him but today i had friends over and they were drinking when he sobered up enough to realize that we drank his beer it caught his attention. he hit me over and over and i wasnt good at defending myself and when he came after me i froze up. now iv got bruises and the hole half of my face is bright red. and get this after all this he asks for an apology! my mom said it was a once only thing and my stepbrother said "once only thing my ***" i no this cant be normal how do i get out of this without messing up school and turning out like my stepbrother
2006-10-07 09:51:42 · 12 answers · asked by Annie B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You were assaulted and you should have called the police immediately. It is not too late. The police will provide a referral so that you can get some help like counseling and see that you have a safe place to live. You are in a dysfunctional environment and until you are in a place where you have loving supervision and appropriate role models, you will continue to have problems. Please talk to a school counselor or trusted adult.
2006-10-07 09:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to bring some body else into the picture, like an Aunt or Grandmother maybe. If that doesn't work for you, how about a school counselor? This man will not stop his abuse, at least not without intervention. I wish you the best.
Peace.
2006-10-07 09:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait a minute. You are in serious danger. Leave! Call the police and ask them to help you. Talk to your school counselor or a neighbor. Whatever it takes but get out right now.
2006-10-07 09:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police officials. in case your mom is so blinded through her "love" for him that she would not even care that he hit you, she might want to favor some help too. possibilities are intense that develop into no longer a one time challenge. he shall be vulnerable to to it again. call the police officials or newborn protecting amenities on him. in case you truly dont favor to attempt this, possibly flow in with your dad if he's round or maybe your grandparents, in simple terms to get faraway from this guy. take care of your self, and positioned your self first. do not difficulty about hurting human beings's thoughts. Get outa there.
2016-12-04 09:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a minor, talk to a school counselor or teacher NOW...they have safe places you can stay...sure it was a one time thing...yeah right, maybe just for that day he hit you...trust me, if he hit you once, he'll hit you again. Tell him, okay I'm sorry, but the cops are at the front door to take your sorry a** away.
2006-10-07 11:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call the police. Press charges against him. Do you have any other family you can stay with? or maybe some friends because you need to get out now.
2006-10-07 10:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-07 09:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, after your mom found out she didn't whip his *** or called the police. i don't care what kind of man he is to her, he don't put his hands on you at all, no exceptions. you need to talk to your mom and if she doesn't leave him, you need to find somewhere else to go like another family members house because you don't want to grow up thinking that its OK for a man to hit on you because its not. Break the cycle, don't be a victim
2006-10-07 10:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any contact with family that are actually sane and normal? if so, contact them and tell them about your situation. If you don't have any sane family, go to an adult you do trust, like a teacher. let them know what is going on b/c this could happen again & it could be worse next time. Good luck!
2006-10-07 09:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by nicole r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need some serious help girl like school councilor or a real close friend. i have had many friend in your situation and all of them needed out side help.find a good church,or a email buddy? every case is important please find help
2006-10-07 10:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋