so my bf got mad because i told a friend i thought he was cheating on me..at the time i told her i wasn't thinking clearly and i was thinking of the worst thing that could possibly happen. and that came out. well he found out what i said and he is mad because he thinks i don't trust him.
it's been 2 days and i haven't seen him. yesterday i went to his house to give him something and saw him for about a half hour. and all we did was argue about the situation. i know he would never hurt me because i know he loves and respects me. but he's refusing to see me today also. he said "i saw you yesterday" and he even said himself it wasn't "hanging out" like normally so why won't he just see me??
2006-10-07 09:45:52 · 9 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, never let your friends or family know of your business with your man. What goes on between you and him stays between the both of you. All those friends or family members are going to run their mouth, words gets spreaded around and the wrong thing happens, the other partner finds out and her comes an agrumentation between you and him and then you are feeling guilty because you done put your biz in the street. Just talk it over with him and explain deeply to him how you feel right now and try to work things out. Good Luck:)
2006-10-07 09:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is cheating & feels guilty Or he's truely hurt because of your lack of trust. The three most importain ingriedents in a relationship are communication, trust & love. First you need to get the communications going again. Call a truce. Agree to talk to him w/o pointing fingers or trempers. TALK, TALK, TALK. Then decide if what he has said, you can trust. If It is, swallow your pride apologize for mistrusting him. Keep the communications open, work on the trust issues and the love will grow.
2006-10-07 17:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by valerie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dublin Boy could have a point. He may be so mad because of guilty feelings. Or he could just be pissed that you would think that about him. Remember, these are men, they think differently than us. Let him sit and stew and you go out and have a good time without him, he'll come around.
2006-10-07 17:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by nclaura402 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you confided in your big mouth girlfriend instead of talking to him directly. You should write a letter of apology and then just give him some space. The next move will be up to him.
2006-10-07 16:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other person who said write him a letter. he just needs some time to himself to let off some steam. Let him have this time, but also let him know that you are sorry and why you said this in the first place and that you do trust him. reassure him that you love him and trust him.
2006-10-07 16:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by nicole r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know wat honey, u shud keep all the problem betwin the two of u only, kep everything private and if there is any concerns regarding him that u cnat understanding and kept wodering about better ask him,. talk to him ina nice way, both of u shud have an open mind and open hurt to duscuss everything about wat u feel to each other it is normal to have that feeling that ur bf is chaeting on u i feel the same way too... but just open up with him... its only the two of u can resolve matters.. so for that childish thing u did, u betta surprise him with something giv him flowers instead,.. its up to u wat evr u feel like will tickle him and make him smile.. goodluck and be good.
2006-10-07 16:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by 00_tyradjh_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is still mad at you. If it is your fault that he is mad, apologize and work things out. Maybe he wants some time off from you.
2006-10-07 16:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause he's mad at you talking up a storm about his business. you need to learn how to keep your trap shut.
2006-10-07 16:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
cos he was cheatin on you
2006-10-07 16:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋