i am so into this woman and I am going to be seeing her tomarrow. Should I tell her or leave things the way they are. I am having a hard time telling her my feelings. help......
2006-10-07 09:45:44 · 6 answers · asked by ladyjamie 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
She can't read minds. You couldn't be happy leaving things the way they are or you wouldn't have posted this question. Drop a few hints and see what happens.
2006-10-07 13:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest to leave things the way they are... for now. I told a friend once my feelings for her and she became aloof afterwards. I made a mistake in telling her my feelings early on in our friendship so don't do what I did. Get to know her first, find out if she's into women too like u are, etc. Basically, become friends first, and if you've gained her trust then be honest with her abt your feelings. Just be ready if she'll still be your friend or not after being honest. Different people have different reactions so prepare yourself just in case. I hope this helped. Good luck.
2006-10-08 00:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by mags 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill, hon...chill. Your actions will speak much louder than words. There is a posibility that too much information will turn the other person off IF they do not feel, at this point, with the intensity that you do. Heavy words scare off more people than shot guns do. Let nature take its course and see what happens. There is no need to put ALL of you out there so early in the game. Good luck and peace.
2006-10-07 17:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her. It's always better, if you really like someone, to let them know. That way you will never regret not at least opening the door and giving the two of you a chance. Just be prepared to accept it if she doesn't feel the same way. Good Luck....
2006-10-07 16:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You didn't mention how long you have known her and if the both of your are Gay or you do not know what her sexual preference is. I wouldn't move to fast because that can scare people away. Listen to what your heart tells you to do. If you have known her for awhile then it may be time to let her know your true feelings. If she does not deal with that well, its better to know now then be more hurt down the road.
2006-10-07 16:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just go back in the closet.
2006-10-07 16:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋