I have a g/f.. but I can't really see her.. and if we do.. its once a week, but its only for around 15 minutes.... then there's another girl.. that catches my attention...
I think that she likes me.. she's been finding out things about me.. like who my ex's were... where I live.. and basically she gets that information from other people...
then she always chooses me as her partner in class... she hasn't really said anything about liking me... and I think it's because she's just trying to get to know me... but I doubt she doesn't know I have a g/f already...
and the thing is.. i might move at the end of the school year.. but I don't want to leave my g/f.. because she's going through a lot right now and I fear that she will fall if I leave her.. I don't want that to happen... what would you do?..
2006-10-07 09:43:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well i think if you love her you need to stick with your gf you have now cause alot of the time people just take the easy way out and thats what it would look like if you start anything with this new girl
you need to talk to your girl and see what is going on and when things will get better for you 2 and see where it gos from there
2006-10-07 09:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you do not have a g/f. If you can only see her for 15 min in that time its once a week. That just my observation of this situation. Now about the other girl what are you real feeling about her. You stated that she catches your attention so that obvious me something ,i am not sure what. If your g/f or suppose 15 min once a week g/f is having trouble if it not with u there is not much u can do because of the time u spent with her.If you are moving u have broken her heart already is that is probably the reason, not sure just making another observation. By my advice to you is to do what u feel in your heart is right. Stick by your 15 min and once a week g/f. I do mean this with a smile.
2006-10-07 17:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would tell my "g/f" that dating just wasnt working out for us, and that i would love to continue being friends...that way you can still be there for her without having any strings attached...and also that way it wouldn't seem wrong for you to get to know this other girl a little bit better...but if you feel strongly attached to your g/f then stay with her and just stay friends with the other girl...but whenever you make your decision just keep this in mind...you cant always do something because your afraid of hurting anonther. meaning you cant just stay with your g/f because you feel you have to. its not fair to you or her and if she cares about you, she'll understand..,Who knows maybe if you decide to just be friends, you'll realize how much you actually can't stand to be away from each other and get back together...Just think about how you feel...think about all the situations and what their consequences might result in...good luck, hope i helped even just a bit.
2006-10-07 16:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. U dont see your girlfriend but for 15 damn minutes but once a week. Just get over her and whever u move to, you'll find u a nice gurl who u can see more,
2006-10-07 16:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you should stay status quo. Then, at the end of the school year, if you move, you move. Remember, this is "The Mating Game," not marriage yet. You are young, yet. Good luck.
2006-10-07 16:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u already answered your question.Go with what u can live with...If u care that much for your gf then you already know what u need to do..Good luck..Oh and onehangin is a idiot so don't pay him any attention.
2006-10-07 16:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a girls view:
the only way to get out of this sticky situationis to be COMPLETELY honest with both girls. no one likes having their heart strings played with... plus the truth has a way of coming out in the end. just be honest with them and yourself... dont lose track of how YOU are feeling. i truly wish you the best of luck.
2006-10-07 16:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously not ready for a relationship right now. You should let them both go and get yourself together.
2006-10-07 16:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't feel bad for leaving her , believe me if you think there something wrong with the relationship he does to , so don't drag her on like that , it will caws more pain .
2006-10-07 16:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your girlfriend, don't leave her!
2006-10-07 16:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by Selena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋