Me and my boyrfriend just had a stupid argument. It wasn't about anything important, so i won't get into details, but the way he acts still really annoys me! He phoned me to apologise and I tried to explain how I felt but it's hard to put into words because right now I just don't really like him! The way talks just really annoys me. I know i'm just being bitter and horrible but I can't help the way i feel. Should I dump him or what? He hasn't really done anything wrong but I feel so much resentment towards him right now.
2006-10-07 09:36:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hello there, i think you should ask yourself if there are any other things about him that annoy you, maybe write up a pro's and con list.....it sounds like this goes deeper than his behaviour in the argument you have just had, ask yourself honestly if your needs are being met, look at the future you will have with this person, do you see happiness & joy or bitterness & resentment? Good Luck with your choices!
2006-10-07 09:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by Donna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that the argument is a stupid argument and it wasn't about anything important. You should think twice about the relationship. If you are arguing about stupid stuff now and not talk about it and change how you both will deal with any other disagreement, then you don't have to be with each other. If you really love each other, you should come to terms how to resolve any problems that you have and stick with it regardless or you will be arguing about stupid things for the rest of your relationship. You are 2 different individuals. You must work together if you want the relationship to last or even thinking about marriage, if you are the right age. So think about it. If you feel that way, maybe you don't really like him. Do some soul searching.
2006-10-07 09:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some space from him to clear your own head about your own feelings without him pushing and getting in the way. Right now you just need you time and he needs to understand that. It doesn't mean that anyone did anything wrong or that anything is broken. It just means that you need to think. If he then can't understand that and give you that-get rid of him. The person who says they love you also is one that will respect your thoughts and feelings and listen to them. Good luck.
2006-10-07 09:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then maybe it's time for you to leave him. Maybe he's just not the one for you so every little thing he does, is going to piss you off. Nothing he does will make you happy and overtime, you will just end up being miserable with him. If you truly believe you cannot tolerate him anymore and you are no longer interested in being in a relationship with him, it's for you to find someone who can happily get along with.
2006-10-07 09:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a very good sign that the relationship is over, when one partner finds deep irritation from the other. its a kind of loss of respect and once the respect has gone usually everything has gone to pot.
its always sad but some ppl are just not suited and usually once a split has occured it is unlikley that it will last.
2006-10-07 09:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you just had the argument... take a breath and think about it... give it a few hours... now does the talking annoy you always or just now after the argument... wat is it about the talking.. the way he sounds.. what he says...??? think about it... if the argument wasn't at all important.. do you want to dump him just because of that "stupid argument"... if this isn't the 1st time.. what did you do after that made you stay with him... think about that.... hope it helps...
2006-10-07 09:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jorge R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly what i might say is check along with her and ask her what's occurring counting on her answer, be sure you enable her understand which you nevertheless opt to be pals along with her, and not something extra so the sensation is mutual say you omit her as a chum, and you do no longer desire her to vanish out of your existence she'll delight in how plenty she potential to you and maximum in all threat will discuss with you extra
2016-12-08 10:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by keetan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill out with your girls for the rest of the day, don't talk to him and let the issue at hand die down before you discuss it with him again.
If you are still ticked a week from now, then maybe it's time to sail off towards a different port....
2006-10-07 09:40:09 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for a walk and cool down talk to him in a few days if you still feel this way then it is time to move on or it could be it is you that no matter what he cant please you so do some thinking see ya
2006-10-07 09:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by ken j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need time to be to your self, just tell him to back off a little
if your boyfirend is doin somthin annoying, i mean like what annoying??? he won't tie his shoes??? somthin silly like that, or what??? i don't think u should dump him totally, jus back of
2006-10-07 09:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by ☆♥~chickgirl~♥☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋