Now I feel bad and am worried her best friend will tell her because she's fallen in love with me too and I told her I'm married and I can't stay with you all the time, just when my wife is not around. She didn't seem to happy about this. What do I do?
2006-10-07 09:08:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Quit being a Jerk and be faithful to your wife! If her friend wont leave you alone tell your wife and tell her you love her and you know how much of a mistake it was and tell her that her friend kept coming on to you and seducing you and tell your her that her friend is blackmailing you to sleep with her and I bet your wife will take you back and lose the friend(which is no friend anyway if she f.u.c.k.e.d you) and then you can make it up to your wife for the next 30 years or so to your wife.... If you plan to cheat again just go jump off a bridge and save your wife the jail time!! lol
2006-10-07 09:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Charmed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well as of right now she is not much of a "best friend" to your wife and honesty is the best policy. You need to cut off all contact with the "friend" and just come clean. From the "friends" point of view if I were in this situation and a man I loved did that to me I would rat on him so you are better off telling your wife on your own rather than letting it come from another person who could potentially ruin your marriage. From your wifes point of view if you two have a strong loving relationship aside from this mistake there may be chance to salvage what you have together. Eventually you can trust a person again and forgive them but remember she will never forget it.Good Luck!
2006-10-07 09:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you love your wife. And it doesn't sound like you love the other woman either. It does sound like you are a scoundrel and that you plan to continue to cheat on your wife whenever she's not around. The only decent [if you are capable of doing anything decent] thing for you to do, would be to leave your wife. Be up front with her. Tell her what a dishonest snake you've been. That you cheated on her with her best friend and plan to continue to do so in the future. Your wife deserves to be free of you. She'll be shaken and hurt, but eventually she'll heal and hopefully find a man who will be true to her. Something that apparently you cannot be.
2006-10-07 09:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this isnt what you want to hear but it is the right thing and the only thing that may return you to before you cheated . you need to get your wife alone and confess before you get in trouble here because your already in trouble and by your words you know this . if you love her be truthful and dont leave anything out at all . she will freakout of course but she will respect your honesty and this will show you do feel remorse for your act and this is the only way youll get out of this . if someone else tells her and their going to your sunk in her eyes . be a man and fess up here but keep it real and tell total truth then stay away from your co cheater and take your pissing and moaning from your wife like a man because you earned it and deserve it . in time itll blow over but in future your going to have to earn her trust and wouldnt it be same if she did this to you . dont let adultry end your marrige . save it by telling truth and promiseing to never do that again and mean it . bible says this is only reason that God releases a person from being married but it dosent say that you must divorce this person and with time and work two can return to the normal love they had before . just love her and respect her enough to tell her you messed up here otherwise your marrige is over . its up to you . good luck
2006-10-07 09:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by sigmond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by saying just when my wife is not around!! then you definetly dont care about you wife and you dont deserve her.Think things through and see if you still love your wife dont let the best friends pushiness guide you. If you had the balls to cheat have them to break the affair. If not then just be honest and get a divorce. Wuss
2006-10-07 09:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by Blue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what to suggest, but your wife's best friend seems really desperate to be with you. You should ask urself who do you want to be with more. If you want continue your marriage then you should stop having sex with ur wife's bestfriend. If she threatens to tell ur wife then just be honest with ur wife and tell what hapen. She might be able to forgive you if you tell her the truth. If she were to hear from her bestfriend then that is a totally different story. You'll just have to make up ur mind.
2006-10-07 09:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you be honest with your wife. You've managed to destroy her friendship as well as your marriage because both you and her "friend" had to screw around. Since you obviously don't want a monogomous relationship I say to give your wife a divorce and let her move on with her life and perhaps find someone with better morals and values than yourself, while you will be free to pursue whatever sexual encounters that you feel you are entitled to. You don't deserve your wife and she certainly could do much better than you.
2006-10-07 09:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey you just digged a grave for yourself. Of all people to cheat on your wife with you f-cked the best friend. you must have been horny or just plain stupid. The only thing I can tell you is tell your wife or lie like hell. If she comes in you and your wife face with that bullsh-it ,LIE,LIE and LIE some more
2006-10-07 09:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to tell your wife, to stop the affair and she has the right to know, how could you do that that so disrespectful from your part and her friends part, she deserves to know. to decide what she really wants for her self,
2006-10-07 09:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by sassy06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its truly your wifes " Best Friend" your wife is going to find out sooner or later!
2006-10-07 09:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by masjkr 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋