im a 18yrs old girl. ive come from a muslim family but studied in london since i was 10. recently i had a sex with an arab guy. it was my first sex experience...now im thinking if its possible to fake being a virgin if in case i marry a muslim guy? also during the intercource i had a lot of blood altough his penis was not big, the normal size i presume...i know there is a chance for it to happen again when i an intercource again...but still i would like to know how to fake it!
2006-10-07 09:00:48 · 11 answers · asked by zarinabezler 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
guys i do know about the hymen and about operation and everything. and im not that active in sport...i dont regret about that, and i still think its very bad to lie about that to your future husband, especially if u love him and plan to spend your lifetime with him. lying about such a big thing is a very bad start :-( GOD but this mentality of my nation! i really dont know what to do. im just desperate....
2006-10-07 09:15:16 · update #1
btw im not muslim, i might be one later on in life, but now all religions are the same to me and i dont believe in them. i believe in some power, one common God above all of us...its a pity that i did it with the guy who i didnt marry. id love to belong only to one man and i would like that man to belong to me.
however i loved that arab and he loved me as well. he was my first love, first real boyfriend. i had my first kiss with him, and my first sex....he was a virgin as well...as he says i was his first love too. however, somehow it fell apart. i cant get over that. its not about faking a virginity, its just hard to keep it inside.
2006-10-07 09:34:44 · update #2
When I first had sex, it was OBVIOUS I was a virgin, because I would always hide my body under the blankets and wouldn't let him touch me that much, and don't moan when you have sex for the first time, and act like it really hurts... I think all girls cry during their first time
2006-10-07 09:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by obsession0524 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you bled during your first intercourse experience was because the hymen (a thin membrane partially sealing the vagina) was torn and the pathway to the uterus opened.
Not all virgins have an intact hymen, however. Girls who are very active, who ride horses, do some kinds of gymnastics, or who have had a jarring injury can have their hymens torn and still remain a virgin. Virginity is simply never having had sex before.
A torn hymen can be surgically repaired.
2006-10-07 09:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mmerobin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should fake it, just be honest with your "husband" and tell him that you screwed up when you were in school and you had sex but you are still a virgin in your heart because he is the first and only that you have loved. He will respect that and he will appreciate your honesty. If you lie about it, your marriage will start out with a lie. Just think about him, if this happened to him, would you want him to lie about it or be truthful. Good Luck with whatever you decide
2006-10-07 09:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by barefootmodel 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Firtly don't worry about your virginity having to break again all you do is if you want to fake it you say its really sore and act it out and then you just tell him if he asks you read somewhere (i have actually) that the bkood and "skin" doesn't neccesarily come when you first have sex it can come out 2 days later or even with your next period - Good Luck
2006-10-07 09:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plastic surgeon can give you a new hyman. if that is worth the effort for you. if that is such a b ig deal find a non muslim to marry.
You poor girl.this is 2006 and you are in the USA. many free clinics availble for good reproductive-advise also. KEEP KNEES CROSSED IF THIS IS IMPORTANT TO YOU.
2006-10-07 09:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to fake your virginity? Do you regret what you have done? I think the only way to fake your virginity is to "verbally lie" that you are a virgin. But other than that, you've already done it and there is no turning back.
2006-10-07 09:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you find the right guy, he should love you no matter what mistakes you have made in the past....lying to him about your virginity will only put up barriers in the relationship...then later, if he were to find out or if you decided to tell him...things will only be worse...When you meet a guy, be honest with him from the beginning and then you will have the right to ask for his trust in return...If he doesn't like you for you, then is he really worth it?
2006-10-07 14:13:15 · answer #7 · answered by michellaneous413 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's easy...here are a few things which will really help you do it...you have to have a certain reluctance and apparent fear of pushing his penis into you. Tell him it hurts and keep trying to keep your legs together. Make it difficult for him to reach full penetration. Don't make any obvious moves that you know what you are doing and allow him to have total lead...and make sure he knows ahead of time how nervous you are about pleasing him, knowing you are a virgin and all...you have some real fear of failing to please him.
2006-10-07 10:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by Seraphim B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not fake it.live with it.you wanted it, you got it, now you want to fake it?
i am a Muslim 2 and i believe that you r wrong to have had intercourse and you r slipping into wrong by faking it.
yr problem is that you r used on lying and now that you have lost yr virginity you want to lie about it.
if you r a Muslim you wouldn't have had sex and if you did you r not Muslim to lie about it.face yr God and face yourself lying is the first step to sins.
all Muslims have mistakes and ask for forgiveness but most important do not lie to yourself or others.you will never lie to God.
think of it and god help you
2006-10-07 09:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by muslim 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Schedule your marriage for the date of you period - then pretend it hurts.
2006-10-07 09:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by justwondering 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋