I think she's keeping something from me, how do I get her to be more open with me like she use to be? and please don't tell me I need some new friends, she's really special to me. help please. :(
2006-10-07 08:58:03 · 11 answers · asked by weirdokid313 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to her and tell her don't shut you out of her life. talking always help. but at times ppl need to keep somethin away from there own friend even if it hurts them too.
2006-10-07 10:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she doesnt trust you then why are you guys even friends? Give her some retoricle questions and she how she reacts to them, you shouldnt be the only thing keeping your friendship alive, she should be to, so honeslty if shes doesnt want to be best friends, then why should you. But I doubt that she doesnt want to, maybe somethings bothering her that she doesnt even want to admit to, or that you guys got so close that it scares her. Just try and get her to talk to you and if she doesnt, then let her know that it is hurting you that she wont talk to you.
2006-10-07 16:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by myerfreddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to know what got wrong is to talk to her &yes; that too in a non domineering& cool way. Take her out to a place you both love& sincerely tell her all your doubts.She might be having her own problems or that you might be behaving extra possesive.Anyways,just talk to her about the whole matter & be supportive. NICE LUCK :-)
2006-10-07 16:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by nilu v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what is wrong. If she is a true friend then she will be honest with you. I agree with what you say about a new friend. Never try to get rid of a friend right away, b/c it is hard to find a true friend. Especially one who will have your back through good times and bad ones. Good Luck!!
2006-10-07 16:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by Naomi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... maybe she doesn't wanna bother u with all her problems... or maybe is just too personal matter to let u know... why don't u give her some space...? tell her that u will be there whenever she needs u... don't worry... i guess she just need some time on her own... i'm sure she also doesn't want to lose a special friend like u... don't give up... be positive... (",)
2006-10-07 16:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by ahsinoriahk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the exact same thing is happining to me and i found the best thing to do is ask her strait up and maybe she has a good reason for keeping it from you and some times friends do need space and if that is the case the only thing you can really do i accept it. hope it helps.
2006-10-07 16:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by AlyssaElaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read this fabulous book called RADICAL HONESTY, by Brad Blanton, PhD.
Also read, INSTANT RAPPORT, by Michael Brooks.
You'll be fine.
2006-10-07 16:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by shlomogon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her and ask her what is wrong if there is something wrong with her try and help her solve the problem
2006-10-07 16:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by powerpuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not into you baby!!! Go find someone else to shag... it a big sea of women out there just waiting for you - be BOLD!!!
2006-10-07 16:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by Gibby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell you.... but i think you need to hear this!!!.... dont hold on to someone that doesnt want to be held on to!!!.....
2006-10-07 16:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by honey_coated_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋