2006-10-07 08:54:09 · 17 answers · asked by Benjamin H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont worry Everyone is unique Be responsible Work pay bills Respect your gf and treat her like gold and then propose and marry her and be happy...
2006-10-07 08:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a really good question.....I had the same problem with me and my mom..look this advice is from the heart... write down every thing you hate about this man,all the pain he caused you and the pain he inflicted on the people around,write the letter as if you were going to give it to him in that letter don't leave any thing out,after you are done read it out load and set it on fire, now you have gotten all of your anger out 2d this is the most important step...let it go..you have to learn that this is who your father is and there is nothing you can do in your power to change this,and what ever he did to you is not your fault...if you have money i would see a quack that's what i had to do it was only for a week and it really helped me...if you have are cindering having kids you need to do this to make sure you don't repeat history...I don't know your religion but take some time out of your day sit down and think about if you had a son what you would and won't do to him and ask for the wisdom and strength to not repeat history!
2006-10-07 19:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by cody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know you or your father there is no way I could tell you how not to become him.
2006-10-07 15:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was wrong with your father
You have the power to change you and admitting you dont want to be someone is a start... use that and the ill memories ofyour father to inspire you NOT to be like him good luck!
2006-10-07 15:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write down three major faults your father has. You will probably look like, sound like and act like your father but you can learn from his mistakes and not repeat them if you try.
2006-10-07 16:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by XT rider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so tempted to give u the wrong answer. But i wont. You will never be him , specially now when this times are dif to his, when he was your age. JUst strive to be the best u can be, DO the right thing .
2006-10-07 15:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by pickemeeeeeeeeeeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow some ppl can't read the question....live by what you believe in. Know exactly what your father did and how he acted and don't do it. Good luck!!!
2006-10-07 15:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is sooo
sweeet
I think u have a part of ur father in u already!
2006-10-07 16:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a conscious effort not to do the things that he has done that you dislike.
2006-10-07 15:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean by his traits, actions or behavior...
Don't do the wrong things that he has done, improve the things that he lacked at. Be yourself.
2006-10-07 16:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by licorice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋