Ifixed an arranged marriage for my daughter
the groom and i had some emotional clash and from that day he is saying iam a terrific women to my daughter instructs her no to speak to me and daughter is upset
she loves me too much and hesitates to proceed with the alliance though she likes the groom very much because she say there will be reverberation in future because of the clash and marriage will not go smooth . what should i do please advise
2006-10-07 08:48:34 · 7 answers · asked by Veda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The most powerful and best option in this situation is to Talk to this Gentle man in a informal setting not only to clear any misunderstanding but also to judge what future he holds for your
most loving and affectionate DAUGHTER.
I am sure this meeting will answer all the future Questions.
My best wishes are with you.
2006-10-07 09:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by vin vin M Bhasin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is great that you fixed a arranged marriage for your daughter, but what I think is just first check with your daughter that whether she is agreed with the marriage or not, as she is more close to you than any one else. In case if she likes the groom a lot then u my suggestion to you is to give the clear picture of yours to your daughter and her groom and try to solve the matter first instead of solving it in future ... no doubt your daughter loves you & she might understand your feeling, not now but it is possible on any other point of time...
Truth is better than any thing...
Wish you luck to you and your daughter...
Ashish
2006-10-07 16:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ashish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD GIVE SOME MORE TIME BEFORE YOU FINALLY DECIDE UPON YOUR DAUGHTER'S MARRIAGE WITH THIS GUY...YOU MAY OR YOU MAN NOT BE TERRIFIC WOMAN...BUT THE GUY SHOULD SHOW RESPECT TO YOU AS YOU WOULD BE HIS FUTURE MOTHER IN LAW...HE MAY NOT PROVE TO BE A GOOD SON IN LAW FOR YOU...FOR THOSE WHO DO NOT RESPECT ELDERS SPECIALLY WOMEN.. ARE GOOD FOR NOTHING...
2006-10-11 05:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
. you can stop the marriage. 2. Things will Change. Because emotional decisions will never give best results. wait things will be alright
2006-10-07 23:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by narayanan a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did u fix an arranged marraige anyway???? let the gurl chose!!!
if u don't glide smoothly with the groom, i don't think it will go too well either
2006-10-07 17:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by ☆♥~chickgirl~♥☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doubt is quite right,but at the same time YOU and only you can judge/decide whether any such doubts will boomerang or not.
2006-10-07 15:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOME MORE PROBLEMS ARE THERE YOU ARE NOT WRITING VERY CLEARLY. THE JUDGE IS ONLY YOUR DAUGHTER WHETHER SHE CAN PASS THE WHOLE LIFE WITH HIM.
2006-10-07 21:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋