ok...there is a guy that I met last week in my class and he talked to me suddenly about his gf (they broke u that day) and he wanted my opinion as someone who doesn't know him/ his gf...when he told me about everything...it seemed to me that his gf was an innocent and I told him to get back to her...and he did! we are sooooo close now, he even told me that he owes me so much for this and i'm his best friend now...but since we're so close...i kinda have a crush on him...i dont want to cuz we're studying together all week and he talk about everything...i'm not that kinda person who tries to steal anyone's bf...but what do u think?what should i do? i dont wanna tell him cuz he's a great guy...and i dont him to leave me for this...but i'm confused..it's not a good feeling though
2006-10-07 08:32:10 · 13 answers · asked by /\/ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You confuse yourself only. The best friend is better then no friend like that at all. Is hard to find the right person anyway.
You got so attached to someone not having the control of own feelings so personals. Back off to the reality and don't stress yourself - Friend and real love, you must handle the proper way.
2006-10-07 08:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it all boil down to his feeling to. The advice you gave was great advice. Now he consider you as his best friend. I must tell u that you made a mistake in giving him advice because you guy see each other or study together all week. My advice to you if u feel like you can not compose your friendship to find another study partner and be totally honesty with him about the whole situations. Do you have a bf? I feel the more time you spend with this guy the more feeling you require for him. Again you stated that you was not that kind of people, so be truth to yourself and him. Good Luck
2006-10-07 09:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem like a nice and good hearted girl. just injoy having him close to you now because she will proabably get jealouse of you or he will get mad at her, and hell think back who's the one he would rather be with.you know he likes you, maybe try to be more flirty around him.hint but dont actualy say it.like i wish i could find a boyfriend like you or if you ever break up with her will you go out with me.use the words love you. eventually hell come around.friendship go's a long way.
2006-10-07 17:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by jeremy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well this is kind of hard if you really like him talk to your bestfriend and tell her how everything happened and if she is a true friend she will understand.Don't stop your feelings for him cause of what she might of told you let your feelings run.
2006-10-07 08:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say it will all fall into place on it's own ,things take time to grow, you might want to stand back a little to make sure that they are not going to get back together ,it's to soon to jump into something that just happend. and to save yourself from heartache.
if he's interested he will go to you
good luck
2006-10-07 08:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don,t play the good and bad guy together stay as a friend it will pay
2006-10-07 08:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hold ur felings in if u don't wanna hurt them..try 2 keep it 2gether
2006-10-07 08:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to be your boy friend. Help me too ok.
2006-10-07 08:35:31 · answer #8 · answered by Jose H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want this relationship to work dont sufficate him just let him live his life while you live yours if its meant to be it will happen
2006-10-07 08:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by fiesty_fox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your mouth shut
if you love then sacrifice ...and probably it is only a phase and you will pass it
give it time
2006-10-07 08:36:54 · answer #10 · answered by going-to-light 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋