I have this friend "Cindy" and i like her a lot and she can be annoying at a lot of times like today i let her check her emails on my computer cause hers broke and so, after i was checking my new answers to this "yahoo answers" some of the questions i asked was personal and really didnt want her to read them so i asked her not to and she just sat in the chair and started searching my emails and everything all my emails from other friends i was like"Stop!" " stop reading them!!" but she was like" but i want to !" and this ended up to be me pulling her off the chair and nothing could stop her and i started spitting on her (i know i shouldn't have but it was the only weapon i had) and that didnt' stop her
she ended up reading everything and i being embarssed im front of her and she acting like nothing happened and there are similar experineces with this so what should i say to her and how can i make her understand and STOP!!!!???
2006-10-07 08:30:31 · 6 answers · asked by ☆♥~chickgirl~♥☆ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her to learn to mind her own business, if she doesn't want you to check her personal emails. If she can't respect your feelings, maybe she isn't a real friend...
2006-10-07 08:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by techtor765 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love your friend "Cindy" and would continue to love her ? Or just because she read your emails and or yahoo answers you will break off with her ??? Trust her. She read your emails to herself. Tell her not to disclose it to others. And for god's sake tell her sorry for spitting on her.(and its not a weapon man.) You could have been more simple and fast.You could have simply cut off the power supply to the computer.Bingo.
2006-10-07 15:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Haresh Punjabi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her use your computer no more. She disrespected your friendship and your wishes by you telling her to stop. But you should've spit on her. I personally would've kicked your *** because that's the lowest thing you can do to a person. I would've told her, look, you gotta go and escorted her away from my damn house.
2006-10-07 15:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit down and tell her that your emails are very personal and you promise that if you get anything funny u will send it to hers basically she might be lonely and has seen you get lots of emails and wants to be popular to send her emails to give her something to look at
2006-10-07 15:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by malligirl99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not yelling at her like try fake crying or get something personal of hers and she'll back off.
but that's a funny story sounds like my life with my friend =)
PS: act like her sometime like go through her stuff she might not like it so tell her if she stops you will to
2006-10-07 15:41:16 · answer #5 · answered by _ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has to respect you, if she cant respect you SHE is not your friend.. you may be a loyal friend, but she is disrespectful.. stand up to her and tell her if she wants to be your friend how things need to be... write her a letter and hopefully she'll understand.. if she doesn't you need to think about yourself..
2006-10-07 15:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by tjdeya24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋