my family and i just moved here in sherman oaks 3 months ago.i have no friends here,relatives or whatsoever.im just stuck in the house with my computer 24/7 im getting really lonely and bored.what should i do?
2006-10-07 07:37:14 · 11 answers · asked by ........ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How about a job. The big J.O.B. gives you wings, sort of like Red Bull, but better. When you have a job you get a sense of purpose, you make friends, you become better acquainted with the world around you, and you get paid, too. People move all the time in these United States. The # 1 reason being "money." Your family probably did it for the same reason. They either needed money or the kind of money that they have placed them where you now reside. Stop complaining and get a job. It is guaranteed to change your life for the better. Too young to work? How about joining the local youth group at church. That's a sure way to make good friends (those without drug issues or criminal records).
Finally, live life intentionally. Nothing worth having was ever handed down. If you want something in life you MUST go get it. Make it happen. Only you are responsible for the quality of life that you will have.
I wish you the best.
With much love and concern,
Mr. M on "so-depressed."
2006-10-07 07:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by getting out from behind the computer and going places. I'm not sure how old you are but if you're still in school then get involved with afterschool programs or sports. How about a church group or even just going down to your local library? You've got to put yourself out there in places where people can see you and get to know you and then you'll have tons of friends.
2006-10-07 14:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for clubs and groups that share your hobbies and interests. You can meet people your own age that you already have something in common with.They are often advertised in the local paper, or go to the library and ask. You'd be surprised how helpful the librarians can be--they have their finger on the local activities pulse.
2006-10-07 14:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go out more often. Try makinf friends with the people at school. Someone is sure to be your friend... even if it might take some time . Its better then nothing.
2006-10-07 14:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by cows go moo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound really sweet, honey. What makes me feel good is finding chat rooms online and just talking. maybe you can get their e-mail. Also, talk to the neighbors. sometimes they're good people. another thing to try, take a walk. Like down your street, to the park and you could probably find a buddy. I dunno how old u are, but you could find someone at school/work. just get outta the house.
2006-10-07 15:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn off your computer and get out, do something. Have fun talking to the living.
2006-10-07 14:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by beautiful_yet_spoiled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your place of worship.......Look for functions in the newspaper. Go to clubs to check out if you'd like to join.
2006-10-07 14:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe u should come and visit tigard i have lots of friends here and im really friendly
2006-10-07 14:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about going outside and try to find new friends. that might help
2006-10-07 18:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you like be my friend?
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2006-10-08 06:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by roseee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋