or with out a argument is not a perfect relationship
2006-10-07 07:21:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I don't believe in the perfect relationship because relationships consist of people. People aren't perfect. Noone is. Therefore you can't have a perfect relationship because the ingrediants are flawed.
However, with lots of work and determination you can have a great one!
2006-10-07 07:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, here is why. even though if you are lucky enough to find the love of your life, the relationship won't be perfect (unless one marry a robot). They are differences and when are differences most of the time there are problems...i.e she likes green, you like yellow, he want 2 kid she wants 4 and so on...I think the word perfect don't fit in the relationship definition, a couple might get along really well but that does not mean they are perfect... Also how if one as a human is not perfect, how one can have a "perfect" relationship?
2006-10-07 18:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. If anyone says they do than they are just lying.
I think a couple that has never had an argument, fight, or disagreement is nowhere close to being a perfect relationship. They are obviously not taking care of issues when they come up. Instead they just ignore it and let it fester and it builds up into something a lot worse. People assume couples that fight are not communicating.
I took a class in college called Courtship, Marriage, and the Family. My teacher said something that I hold dear to this day. She said. "Conflict is good, it is how you handle it that is bad." It is ok to have conflict, it happens. You have fights with your parents, friends, and siblings why should a spouse or significant other be any different. It is how you handle the conflict that is bad. One bad way is to never let conflict come out. Instead you let if fester into resentment and the relationship crumbles because of it. The other way it is bad is all you ever do is fight and nothing gets resolved.
Conflict is good as long as you talk about it and you fix it.
In the end there is no such thing as perfect. Perfect is what people like to convince themselves actually exists.
2006-10-07 14:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is certainly no such thing as "perfect." Now wouldnt that be a bore, By human nature we all have differences and to think we would find someone who would agree with every single aspect of our personna would be foolish. Anyone who claims to have a perfect relationship is simply not being honest with themseleves or is lying. NOW ,,, that said ,,,if you are arguing constantly then you may need to take a close look as to whether the relationship is even appropriate at all.
A relationship can be "not" perfect but without what you refer to as arguments. Compromise ..on BOTH sides is oftne essential. So,,,,dont let anyone fool you into thinking that there is anything thats perfect ,,,,,it doesnt exist. Good luck :)
2006-10-07 14:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by jack s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real perfect relationship is with God and you, apart from that relationship no other can take its place or be of more personal impotance to you, without that first it won't matter what kind of relationship you have as you and me are all basisly walking around in our own graves so how about putting first relationships first okay,
2006-10-07 14:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by wgr88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in trying to make a relationship work through compromise, understanding, love & compassion, but it would never be totally perfect & that's probably what's good about it: bad moments in the relationship might help appreciate the good moments all the more. Voila!
2006-10-07 17:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Lasha♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are two answers to this, how can i say this without contradicting my self, for a relationship to work one individual has to be taking care of the other one. and then it becomes balanced, cos one is doing the suffering and the other the indulgin, purely sastisfied hence the word "perfect relationship" But then again, The Bible says put your trust and hopes on God and He shall make everything right. Which i firmly believe. there yu have yur answer
2006-10-07 14:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by ChuK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have been married for 34 years this coming March.
We have had our share of arguments over the years, never any hitting though.
It is only natural that there will be differences from time to time.
I maintain that we have a perfect relationship as I make up for her weakness and she makes up for mine.
2006-10-07 15:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by drg5609 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not perfect. Can I have a perfect relationship?
In fact, I have a perfect friend, but he is too far away from me. ..
2006-10-07 17:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I have the perfect relationship with my dog.
2006-10-07 14:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by waxingtheturtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋