and now his tell me he needs spaces and that he not sure if still want to be a family man that he want to know what it fells like to be alone. and that he is still wants us to be togther like boyfiend and girlfriend but living in diffent places.
2006-10-07 07:01:19 · 14 answers · asked by hot nica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds to me like your hubby is very immature and did not consider the responsibility of a marriage and child before entering into this relationship with you.
Would either/both of you consider counseling?
2006-10-07 07:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by msho58147 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you marry young, you never have the chance to grow up on your own. However, if you can make it through these times and help each other, you'll never regret it. You need to be his friend as well as his wife. He doesn't need space from you. He needs space from pressures. He will also need to know that running doesn't solve anything, but you can't be the one to tell him that. If he wants time to be alone, he should get a job where it's totally cut-throat. They he will know he can always come back to you for the stability and hope a relationship offers. Why is he doing the reverse? Are you spending too much time w/the in-laws? You are his family. He needs you now more than ever.
2006-10-07 07:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by OhIdonno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's met someone else, whether or not anything has happened with them yet, he wants to be free so it can. I would approach him to go to counseling together. After the first 5 years of marriage, the "honeymoon" is over and the real people emerge. If you can get through this, you will have a greater chance of staying together. In the easy times, you don't need the bond of 'marriage,' it's when the going gets tough that you need to cling to the fact that you're married. Tell him no, he can't leave now.
2006-10-07 07:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 01:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. He obviously hasn't grown up. First of all it is too late to be thinking he doesn't want to be a family man. Secondly If he thinks you can be boyfriend and girlfriend he is crazy, what the hell is your little boy supposed to think? And third, CHILD SUPPORT. Throw that in his face and see how different he thinks. Maybe try marriage counseling.
2006-10-07 07:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by Little_Lulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married at 19, and a parent at 21 is very young. He never really experienced independence. Perhaps he's beginning to feel that he missed his youth. Communicate with him. Perhaps counseling is an option. It may hit you when you reach your 30's!
2006-10-07 07:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your spouse if very immature and very selfish. He want to have several "pieces of cake" and eat them all. He needs to grow up and face his responsibilities....a wife and child. If he's not willing do that, then he doesn't deserve you.
I wish you good luck with your decision.
2006-10-07 07:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might consider counseling---ask him why he feels tha way he does--its not always another person (woman)--sometimes people reach a crossroads or they become unsatisfied with the direction their life is taking----love for you still might be very strong--its just he might be unhappy with other things in his life-and is projecting his unhappiness on to your marriage---there are ways to deal with emotional problems and unhappiness without ending relationships if you try to seek help fot the problem----you have a little boy--thats worth trying
2006-10-07 07:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married? Tell him living separate is not an option. He is looking for an easy way out. If not married get him to court quick for court ordered child support.
He is looking to blow off his duty to his kid.
2006-10-07 07:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants out and that is sad after a child is involved
2006-10-07 07:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by nora7142@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋