what would ya do in this scenario?
2006-10-07 06:57:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm 35 years old and 17 years ago I told my best friend that I was in love with him even though he had a girlfriend.
We have now been happily married for 15 years and have 2 children.
I would definitely say something to him/her. If you don't you might end up regretting it for the rest of your life. If you tell him/her your feelings and he/she responds in a negative way and decides not to have anything to do with you anymore. Then, he really wasn't that good of a friend afterall.
Life is too short to "settle" for just anyone...approach telling him/her with caution but do tell him/her.
2006-10-07 07:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by cara_in_stl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, i think you should keep tight lipped. It would hurt, but if they are in a happy relationship, you would upset / lose your friend if you hurt them. You don't want to be the person to break up 2 people. It's hard, but fairest all round. Sorry
2006-10-07 07:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by slinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have a b/f or g/f then I would wait till they didnt, you dont want to be the reason for them breaking up and to say anything might cause hard feelings. best to keep it to yourself.
2006-10-07 08:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep quiet as telling would spoil your friendship
2006-10-07 07:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything. Even if they didn't have a BF/GF you run the risk of ruining your friendship if they don't reciprocate your feelings-they'll feel "weird" around you"
2006-10-07 07:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it quiet even though its hard. He is with his girlfriend for a reason and you shouldn't complicate his relationship especialy if you love him.
2006-10-07 07:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say or do a thing that will jeopardize any chance that you may have with him in the future. If it is meant to be, then it will happen.
2006-10-07 07:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by mailbox1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy
2006-10-07 06:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until they break up before saying anything. Don't cause problems and make them hate you.
2006-10-07 07:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋