I always feel like i give so much to others and don't get the same in return.It seems like my friendships only last about a year and they end because of a silly arguement or something that makes me realize they weren't real to begin with.It really hurts me cause i'll think we're really close and then end up hurt when i find out the frienship is over over some stupid thing.My recent friend and i were friends for a little over year and now we haven't spoken for almost three weeks cause we got in to a arguement about how she is inconsiderate to my feelings.She doesn't get it cause it's not happening to her but it shouln't be like that , she should be able to see things from my point of view even if it doesn't affect her. I really need a close friend but i don't know what i'm doing wrong or what's wrong with me.Please help me out, all answers will be appreciated.
2006-10-07 06:44:18 · 4 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i used to be like you girl..i also need a really close friend so i can tell them whats going on around me, how am i feeling and then need someone to suport what am i doing....is it ok or not...but,,it doesnt seem to be working..it end less tan two years n we seem like we dont know each other eventhough we used to be close friend...
what i learn from that is....: freindship doesnt need any compromise,dont be like the other even if you want to stick with her...friendship is comforting each other..care for each other..if you want to be friended just because you need one, it wont last long....believe me...
dont try hard to cover your own feeling coz you will never had a chance to discover the true feeling in freindship....
dont search for it coz it will come naturally...dont force other one to be like you..it will annoyed your friends n the last one is...be true to urself ok......
gud luck....!
2006-10-07 06:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ik how u feel the same exact thang has happened 2 me all my life(im 16) n yeah it does hurt i kinda feel this is a personal issue so thatsall ill say but if ud like u can email me at babyangel81490@yahoo.com we can talk n im sure i can help u out
2006-10-07 06:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by lilmommiNeosha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You attract them. You need to visualize attracting positive nice people.
2006-10-07 06:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should get to no them better, i mean before you become freinds with them.
2006-10-07 06:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by You're My Wonderwall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋