i got a friend and now shes my everything.she loves me a lot and me too.one day wen we're talkin she told me that she had something like sex means oral stimulation with her ex-lover,they both did like that.she didint tell me that b4 cos she told she was afraid to lose me.after that day i'm so strange i don know wht to do to get it out of my mind.i cant forget her.next time when we kissed that things came to my mind and i told her that..she too is sad now.sometimes i say my self that she didin do such things with him..i hate that. i don know wht to do with this to forget that wht she told,i will do anything. cos i don wanna miss her..i love her so much
2006-10-07 06:21:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
did this happen when she was with you or before? if it was before, remember that a person can't change their past. what happened before you came along had nothing to do with you, and although it will be difficult, remember that she is with you, not him, and you don't need to concern yourself with it.
if this happened while she was with you, and she cheated on you, then you need to ask yourself if you are willing to continue the relationship or not, and if you can get over this. it will take lots of time to regain trust.
either way, you should sit down with her and have a talk. be honest and tell her how you feel, and be matter-of-fact and not angry. tell her you don't want to lose her. get through this together.
2006-10-07 06:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by woodpecker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever been in relation before? Why oral sex is something so terrifying for you.
You love that girl. You love her as she is write now.
So what is your problem about her life in the past. And why you are making her sad only because she had oral sex? She didn't tell you that she had sex with 10 guys or that she is seek or something, she just had relation with some guy and they enjoyed oral sex.
Don't you think that it is good to try it with her. May be it is something that make her get crazy in bed?
2006-10-07 06:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by njanja 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
many human beings have faith intercourse formerly marriage is misguided, ut it doesnt remember what they think of, its what you have faith that concerns. in case you think of that intercourse formerly marriage is misguided then do not do it till you experience marriage is the appropriate course for you with this boyfriend, tell him your ideals. if he chooses that he doesnt experience a similar, dont do it only on account which you are concerned dropping him. he's not properly worth it if he cant appreciate you. in case you thinks it ok to have intercourse out edge of marriage (that's what i in my opinion have faith) then you ought to ask your self whether your waiting to lose your virginity? this is painful the 1st time you have intercourse, if there is lots of foreplay and he's gental the discomfort is only not undesirable. there may be a sprint blood using fact the heimen will break yet this is organic. continuously use secure practices as you dont prefer to get pregnant or seize a affliction or any style. in case you dont experience waiting inform you boyfirend, if he does not prefer to attend, dont experience compelled into doing it. take issues at your very own %., there are continuously extra respectful adult males available.
2016-10-18 23:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by cardish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE U CRAZY??? GET OVER IT! THAT'S HER PAST AND LET IT STAY THERE. DIDN'T U KNOW THAT SHE HAD BOYFRIENDS BEFORE U? WERE U A VIRGIN BEFORE HER? HOW CAN U CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE TO THE ONE U LOVE BECAUSE OF HER PAST, WHICH IS EXACTLY THAT- PAST? DO U WANT TO LOSE HER? COS IF U DO, THEN YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT PATH!!
2006-10-07 06:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is with you now forget about the past
2006-10-07 06:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by themancoat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop thinking about your personal relationships and take some English classes.
2006-10-07 06:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by spackler 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOU ARE KILLING THE RELATIONSHIP SLOWLY.SHE MAY NOT LET YOU INTO ANYTHING AGAIN ESPECIALLY HER PAST.TAKE IT EASY OR YOU WOULD LOSE HER COMPLETELY.TRY AND HELP YOURSELF BY WIPING THAT STORY OFF YOUR MIND.
2006-10-07 06:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it or leave her plain and simple i mean thats the options
2006-10-07 06:25:20 · answer #8 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not hold her ex's against her.. she wasn't with you.......if she eats some food you don't like are you never gonna kiss her again....grow up
2006-10-07 06:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋