especially when they have a beautyful sexy young wife at home, and then they cheat with ugly/fat women. whats up with that? i don't understand.
2006-10-07 06:18:26 · 28 answers · asked by tinkerbell mommie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For some men, it's in their nature to cheat...to spread their seed. It's not acceptable, and if this is your case , you need to leave him. You deserve better than that. No one deserves to be cheated on! Find a good man that won't cheat.
2006-10-07 06:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beautiful, young and sexy are all physical characteristics of a person. Being attracted physically helps land the desired catch but it cannot make up for an ugly personality by any means.
One night stands are totally different as once the physical part is satisfied one can simply tell the other to "Get out".
So a hubby who cheats /w a less attractive (physically) person is looking for more than just skin deep beauty. Also having a nasty attitude can be a huge turn off to most guys so even as pretty as she may be might not mean she is sexy.. .. to him.
2006-10-07 13:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by se7en 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey !! thanks for asking this question. I read a question in here from a wife who had perfect relationship and yet was cheated on .Even I was spending my time thinking why this happens and will my hubby do it too. Then I talked to him and he told me that it is like the cases of murders, so many people commit murders but not all. And no I dont believe that men are naturally polygamist !! that's weird !! I hate men who support such deeds and as a fact we have some answering your question too.
2006-10-07 13:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, if this has, in fact happened to you! But, to answer your question, I'd say either one of two things:
1) He has a fetish for this kind of thing....'BIG' women.
2) He craves something sexually that he's not getting from you.
There's not much you can do about #1. If this is part of his sexual fantasy land then that's hard to deal with.
For #2, there are various scenarios for this. Maybe he's asked you for sexual play that you don't want any part of and refuse to engage in it.
Maybe you do it but are not good at it.
Maybe he doesn't feel he can approach you about what he wants because either you are not easy to approach or talk to, or because he's embarrassed and doesn't know how to approach it, or is afraid you will laugh at him, or discount him for asking.
Maybe the guy is just a turd and you need to consider getting out of this relationship.
Maybe the guy has a big ego and doesn't feel he needs to 'consult you' on matters like this.
I don't know you, or him, but am tossing out some pretty likely ideas for you tho. I imagine the reason is in there somewhere.
Whatever happens tho, I wish you the best of luck with everything. You need to have someone in your life that is a part of you and wants to share everything with you, and you alone!
I wish you luck and love and peace in your life!
2006-10-07 13:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are keeping him happy and satisfied in the love making department and all other things he seems to be happy with and he is still cheating then this is an addiction on his part. I think keeping a man satisfied in bed is very important in any marriage. Men are sexual by nature and need this to stay healthy in mind and body.
2006-10-07 13:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by hehmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man cheats for the same reasons that a woman does. Boredom, stress, a release, frustration, combined with little willpower.
2006-10-07 13:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be beautiful and sexy but she may have a low sex drive and the man looks Else where,which is a shame,he should be working on helping with the problem and it could be medical like hormone level is low.
2006-10-07 13:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why men cheat but it could be the same reason women stay so bitter so long after they get cheated on
2006-10-07 13:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by toobadfaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah sweetheart the honeymoons over..Some men can get enought of a good thing, then it becomes haphazard, and dull, and they pick the opposite for a change...Possibly the new one does things to him you wont or dont....
2006-10-07 13:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are not allowed to act like men in the workplace, and they dont want to muss up their trophy wives with kinky desires ... a soft ride is a comfortable ride ... who likes to ride a bony horse????
2006-10-07 13:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋