hand and since then I am really scared of gays. I'm a guy. Should I be scared?
2006-10-07 06:03:57 · 13 answers · asked by BanAna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
grow up if he just cause someone don't see things the way you do dosn't make them bad people...... if someone touches you and you don't like it then call the cops. but don't judge a book by the cover.....
2006-10-07 06:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you're a minor and some guy tried to touch you inappropriately, he's not necessarily gay but he's probably a pedophile and you're right to be scared of him. Him, in particular, not a group of people. When you judge a group of people based on a stereotype or the actions of one, that's called prejudice and it's a bad thing.
If you're an adult and the guy on the train made eye contact with you, and you continued to look back at him, perhaps he thought you were interested as well. It's not a "gay" thing, it's called flirting and het folks do it too. The most polite response would be to say, "I'm flattered, but I'm not interested." And try not to be so easily frightened of people. All of the gays I know are pretty peaceable folks.
2006-10-07 13:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by fyrfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How funny I am about to pee my pants laughing! I promise that you cant catch it. You sound like my husband. I honestley think that you should take it as a compliment. It sounds as if no one would ever percive you as a gay man. Its obvious you would rather have a good taco instead of a corndog at the fair.
2006-10-07 13:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by brandi c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this person, or any person for that matter, you are uncomfortable and not to touch you.
Homosexuals are not to be feared anymore than heterosexuals. They are human as much as you are.
Your body is yours and you have the right to set boundaries.
2006-10-07 13:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by TenJac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be scared, because is every guy attracted to every girl? and is every girl attracted to every guy? no...so not every gay man is attracted to every man, you're just probably scared of them making a move on you, which you shouldnt be worried about.
2006-10-07 13:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by zion354 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um are you serious, maybe he touched you cause he thought you were staring at him or maybe it was on accident. I doubt he was trying to rape you or something just say no thanx.
2006-10-07 13:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by skyfitzheaven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No get a girlfriend and if another one comes up to you say i have have a girlfriend mister and i'm not gay so can you get away from me.
the worst fear is nothing but fear it self.
2006-10-07 13:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ignore then for pete's sake. They're not gonna kill you. They're human. You wouldn't be fussin' if it were a hot lady trying to touch your hand now would you?
2006-10-07 13:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them you are straight and let it go at that. Move their hand away with your other hand and shake your head no!
2006-10-07 13:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gays that I know don't just touch men they don't know,usually they pick up on vibes that a person is receptive,so what's your view ??
2006-10-07 13:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋