2006-10-07 05:41:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because parents think of themselves and do not think about the children. Each of the parents become bitter and try to do everything in their power to make the other suffer. They forget that the most important thing is the children. I divorced my husband after 5 years cause he cheated on me and he told me about it and i could not deal with it and i thought more of myself so i left him and he and i never fight over our son. My son is happy with the way things are he was 5 when i left him and he is 10 now. We have never had a problem with him at all. He keeps him 2 days a week and i have him the rest of the time. I do not make him pay child support cause there was no need in him having to give me more money than he had. We raise him together. The only thing he does is cause i got remarried he files taxes with him and give me half of the money every year. There are ways to make the lives of the children better. Parents just have to find a happy medium to deal with it.
2006-10-07 06:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Karen S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because for some reason it never fails once a divorce is filed the spouses seem to become eachothers worst enemy forgetting all about the children,in my case I chose not to fight my ex he thought I wanted his retirement and in his words everything but he was wrong I walked away,even gave him joint custody of our child even though he's deployed alot,didn't seek spousal only asked him to help support our child but prior to him finding out I had no interest in what he had wow it was nastier than nasty.
2006-10-07 09:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The court could fix this problem by assuming shared parenting and assign a parenting coordinator to setup a fair plan to suit the kids! Kids need the love and support from both parents. It would reduce a lot of problems and cost but the lawyers wont like it because it prevents billing hours
2006-10-07 06:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd recommend shifting out of city yet no longer so some distance away that you won't be able to go for your little ones regularly. detect a city the position no one knows about the nasty divorce, connect a church or some crew of people who you percentage a familiar interest. do not bypass searching for a love interest before everything, in simple terms make friends and detect innovations on the thanks to stay again. someone will come alongside which will capture your eye, yet you want to manage the wear and tear and anger that you're at the moment feeling.
2016-12-04 09:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, since a family is like 2 pieces of paper glued together, when it gets ripped apart some pieces stick to either side. It is the same with a marriage and children. the kids are a part of both parents, and they are all hurting and trying to find a new ground when there really isn't one. its just a different place.
2006-10-07 06:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by 2ndchhapteracts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew. I'm in that situation now... it's never easy. The best thing to do it just confide in someone you trust. Thats the only reason i've been getting through it.
2006-10-07 06:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by Di 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nature of the beast. Divorce is never easy.
2006-10-07 05:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We cannot see into the future.
2006-10-07 06:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋