How do you cope with situation when you find your gf spending nights with other guy and hanging with him sometime. But sure, they have no affairs! I am worried.
2006-10-07 05:14:27 · 16 answers · asked by LemonPro 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hanging out is still okey but spending the night is just totally and absolutely absurd! If your girl has a bit of love and respect for you, she wont go around doing things that would hurt you and the relationship. The best way to cope up with the situation is to confront her about it. Tell her how you feel and if this goes on then just give her up. A person should know when to hold on and when to let go.
2006-10-07 05:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey listen, some of these peoples suggestions are pretty negative, take them all with a pinch of salt because the only way your really gonna be able to settle this is having it out with her, before it drives you mad. She may be having and affair, or may eventually, or maybe even not at all but you just cant assume. Tell her that it makes you uncomfortable, ask her how she would feel if it was the other way round, if she continues after you've thoroughly expressed yourself you know she isnt taking your feelings into consideration, in which case she isnt worth your time and you need to move on. But you have to get it sorted before matters get worse and someone gets really hurt, hope all goes well x
2006-10-07 06:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the majority. My ex was 'just friends' with someone and then it turned into something more.
But that's just my experience and I am too trusting.
When you say spending nights... do you mean overnight? I wouldn't like it AT ALL. I would suggest meeting this other guy and going out as a group. If there is nothing to hide, then it shouldn't be a problem.....
Most of all... listen to YOURSELF. You know the answer inside you... listen to your intuition and honour it.
2006-10-07 05:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have become aware of his inborn weakness during that year and a half.. then expect it to involve you eventually. It did and now you are spending too much time thinking about it. It eventually must come down to you getting ready to live the rest of your life without encumbering it with experiences from the past. When you let it go (forgive him his weaknesses) you Will be better prepared to face life in the coming years. Continuing to discuss it with anyone only keeps it on the front burner of your life and prevents you from letting it go.
2016-03-28 00:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by Michele 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't there , it has to be an affair. Why isn't she hanging out with you. that is something you don't cope with unless you are confident in your relationship and know the men who shes out with
2006-10-07 05:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by juanandonlyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DON"T cope!! You leave! She has no business doing what she's doing....it's a total lack of respect for you, and your realtionship in general. Leave her, and find a good woman!
2006-10-07 05:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u either believe her or u don't.
if u don't, u shouldnt be in that relationship.
if u do, but it bothers you, tell her that.
don't be angry, just tell her u feel a bit left out and it's making u sad.
this should work.
if she doesn't change her attitude after this, she doesn't really care about you, and she's selfish.
i don't think u want to bi with someone like that.
2006-10-07 05:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by dk_pup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have reason to be worried. Tell her how you feel and if she continues to do it dump her. There are more fish in the sea.
2006-10-07 05:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If all you do is worry in a relationship it's time to end it.
2006-10-07 05:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by waxingtheturtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she prefers the company of another guy to yours, then you DO have a problem.
And yes, if they're not having sex, they soon will.
2006-10-07 05:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋