2006-10-07 04:51:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
absolutely if both parties are willing - with some dr phil playbacks a bit of elbow grease and a really good heavy duty first aid kit, you guys should b able to get thru. Just gotta establish the respect line again and make sure u don't cross it.
2006-10-07 04:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now how can a mutually abusive relationship be a healthy one, these types of relationships are nothing but destructive...they can never be healthy in any event, it may seem normal to you both because you probably dont know anything different to these types of relationship...but i got one question for you, dont you think you deserve better than this?......
2006-10-07 11:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont think it can be, I think when you have two abusive personalites together, there is a history between them that never fades and always comes back. some people are used to abuse because that is what they grew up with and the only life they know.The only way they can be healthy is if they move away from each other and get individual help.
2006-10-07 11:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by confusedpatricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't sound like it was healthy in the first place. for it to become healthy both of you need to change the abusiveness into a more constructing light. i don't see that happening though. seems like the two of you have some sort of power struggle
2006-10-07 11:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by lon d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so.... it would only be a matter of time before one person fell back into old behaviours and then the other partner would as well..... stay friends but move on
2006-10-07 11:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by hippiemommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure
if you like mutually abusive relationships
2006-10-07 11:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess anything is possible... but that line of respect has been crossed and it will take years of work to rebuild.
2006-10-07 11:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by Jer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope - get counseling for yourself and then find someone who is not abusive.
2006-10-07 11:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is, then you needs a lot of faith, trust and love. Good Luck
2006-10-07 12:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not without lots of counseling and TIME.
2006-10-07 11:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋