As i said i love my boyfriend very,very much,but there is a man in my work place.I like him and i dont know how to stop thinking about him.Is that somthing wrong with me? i dont want to hurt feelings of my boyfriend.
2006-10-07 04:12:49 · 26 answers · asked by loreta l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
join the club. I feel like that, but just ask yourself if you are willing to risk everything for a relationship with another person? are you willing to risk everything you have with your current partner?
2006-10-07 04:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by SuPeRsTaR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is some sexual tension between you and this work mate. I would say that you are playing with fire! I have actually acted on those feelings before and you know what? They never live up to your expectations or "fantasies" or "daydreamings" that you have. Besides, if you have a boyfriend you will just regret and jeoporadize something meaningful for something that you just wonder about. I would say look from afar, but dont' make any moves. Keep in mind, YOU LOVE YOUR BOYFRIEND! How would it make you feel if he were on here asking a question like this?
2006-10-07 11:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by Erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that anyone can be in a good relationship but still find themselves attracted to someone else. I know I have.
The key is whether you're truly happy in the relationship you're in. Can you imagine life without your boyfriend? Would you spend the rest of your life wondering what would have happened if you'd gone for the guy at work, or do you see yourself forgetting about him in a few weeks?
Being attracted to someone is one thing. Acting on it is another. You've gotta ask yourself if the possibility of being with someone else is better than what you have with your current boyfriend.
If it is, then go for it. If not, avoid the guy at work and do something nice for your boyfriend.
Good luck!
2006-10-07 11:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by the reporter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only attracted to this other guy, it's not like you're having a full-on affair with him. it is perfectly normal to feel attracted to other men. you'd have to be an android to walk through life afraid or denying that there are other members of the opposite sex that you find attractive...unless, of course, you want more. if that's the case then there is probably a problem with your current relationship and the attraction to this guy is merely a symptom of what's going on in your relationship. then some straight talking and some genuine soul-searching is called for. otherwise, it's just a passing fancy. you can have this other guy in your mind any time you like...guilt free!! good luck!!
2006-10-07 11:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in actuality it doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you go home for dinner...you're not married so you'll have to figure out if the possibility of a relationship with this new guy is worth losing what you have with your boyfriend...Looking and fantasizing are not bad things...lying and cheating are. Don't string anyone along and don't betray anyones trust. Just be honest with everyone involved if you plan to explore your options with the guy at work...Best wishes to you.
2006-10-07 11:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a crush, you will get over it, sometimes when we are in a routine it can get boring and we can start taking people we love forgranted, this is life unfortunately, when you first meet someone you cant stop thinking about them its all very exciting, but after a while those feelings wear off a bit you say you love your boyfriend if your happy dont rock the boat for some meaningless sex you may regret it in the end
2006-10-07 11:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there,
i know exactly where you are coming from, had the same thing happen to me, I put it down to infatuation the new person bought me to life in a way i had not known for some time but don't make the mistake of acting on it because if you don't connect you will lose a person that you really love and it isn't worth it.... ( from my experience).
You need to ask yourself why are you valnerable to someone else?.
And try to spice up your own existing relationship, and if you just love your man,,,,
But are not in love with him anymore, which is completely different you need to talk this through with him and and atleast let him know, " where you are at emotionally" you owe him that and also you owe the truth to yourself...
Good luck..
2006-10-07 11:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by Adrian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said, you love your boyfriend. So what's the attraction to the other guy doing in your life? Get this guy out of your mind for other than a co-worker(since this kind of a relationship is dangerous to you, him, and your job). Possibly a friendly relationship is appropriate, as long as you include your boyfriend in it
2006-10-07 11:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my wife for 14 years and every now and then I feel attracted to another woman. It happens, the point is have you made a decision to be with someone else. If you have you get over the attraction.
For me its no problem, my wife is lovely, for you...who knows.
2006-10-07 11:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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God loves you, and you are precious to Him.
Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation.
Jesus’ love is boundless and everlasting.
We have the hope of Heaven through Jesus.
Life therefore has fantastic and glorious future!
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2006-10-07 11:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by tmthyh 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋