my bestfriend proposed me i said no...i love him too but never wanted to be what both my heart and he wants us to be.well,after 1hrs of my answer he had an accident and he died 2 hrs later....my other bestfriend says it was all my fault...do u agree?
what do i do i dont want to loose my other bestfriend?
2006-10-07 03:34:25 · 14 answers · asked by tonima 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ramsey james....its my life and u think i copied it from somewhere?
2006-10-07 03:51:50 · update #1
hey hey hey its not at all ur fault.there are somethings which are destinied to happen and no one can stop them from happening.everythings not in our control.u r not to blame ok.and ur other best friend if he is really ur best friend he wud undersatnd u that u are also going thru a low ime and be there with u.talk to him open ur hear out to him.if he still blames u then leave it.....his friendship is in question....theres nothing wrong about u ok
and relax.....take care of urself
God bless
Le Gra
Sne
2006-10-07 03:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Number 1 its not your fault that this happened. How could it be your fault. Accidents happen all the time and there is nothing you could of done to stop it. It was just his time. And for your other best friend well, what kind of friend could that person really be. That is probably the worst thing a person could say whether a friend or a complete stranger. I would confront her about what she said and tell her bad you feel because of it. See what she has to say and then decide what you want to do. That is really something you're going to have to decide for yourself. Good luck and I am truly sorry for your loss.
2006-10-07 10:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by kelrichard1995 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO what kind of freind would say that look he sounded like a good so he desereved someone who truley loved him..that way.just becouse you love your best freind soesnt nessasarily mean you have sexual feelings for him so i think you did the right thing.Secondly it was an acident right he didnt comit suicide so its not like he could control it or nessasaraly wanted it.and even if he did comit suicide(sorry i couldnt really get that part of the question:)than you know what meybe hellfind his true love in heaven my sisster died when she was 22 and i never worry about her being mad about the things we regreted pepole who have dided have no reson to so you shouldnt feel bad i know how rough the guilt and pain are but it gets alot easier and i know thats like all pepole say but i mean at somepoint it will all fall into place.
and abouth your freind just tell her that really hurt when he said that and that its hard enough and you dont need her making you feel worse and if she gets mad at you shelll get over it,when pepole get mad about stuff like this its cuz theyre hiding there own feelings.she might feel like shes in the same boat as you.
2006-10-07 10:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by brit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Toni, thats rediculous and the person who told you that is a insenstitive clod. The bottom line is whereas you might have broken his heart, you had no control over his actions after that point in time. Tell that other friend they had no right to say that to you. And if his dying bothers you to the point of interferring with your life, seek counseling.
2006-10-07 11:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not your fault. I would question the friendship of your other "best friend" for telling you that it was your fault. That kind of friend isn't really a friend.
2006-10-07 10:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by Country Hick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what is right for you. Anything else that happened is not your fault and yoru friends need to grow up.
2006-10-07 10:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not your fault. things happen that are way beyond your control. dont let other blame you because u dont have the power to kill anyone else.
2006-10-07 10:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by heycanwedoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you tease him. you kill him. and now you have the live with that for the rest of your life. WELCOME TO HELL.
What you think I would give comfort for his family's distress or helping you get your life together so you can put that behind you.
Go ask forgiveness to the boy's family and tell them the truth. don't tell it to us on line cause it's all useless. you got guilt and you worry about lossing your "best friend". some friend you are.
2006-10-07 10:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It was not your fault. It was his time to go. It had nothing to do with you.
2006-10-07 10:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From which movie / book did U flick this story ?
2006-10-07 10:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋