My bf whom i live with with my child and i have been experiencing some rough times lately. He said he needed some space just to be by himself si I said that is fine. So last night he got off work at 930 or so and i called him at 11 like five times in a row b/c this whole thing isnt like him and i was concerned about what he was doing. anyway, when he got home he was angry at me for not listening to him. Also we are angry at each other for treating each other badly in our rel. together. i fully admit i have and want to change. however, he started cussing so i went to shut the door and ask him to come back when he was calm and he got REALLY rough with me, no hitting. He said that the reason he is like this is b/c i have treated him badly and hes lost it. we have both been bad to each other for awhile noe. anyway, what do i do as i am scared. i really didnt understand that calling him would make him so angry and i truly mean that. i guess i understand now he needs his space!
2006-10-07 03:32:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You guys have some serious problems I'm afraid. I don't care how much he things you are annoying him, he never has the rights to put his hands on you.
I think you both need some space to decide where you want to take this relationship from here. Your relationship isn't healthy, especially with a young child in the house.
2006-10-07 03:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need 2 pay attention 2 the signs he NEEDS SPACE that means he is at a boiling point he has had enough of the nonsense , i feel time apart would help because if u said u r willing 2 change and u havent done so that means u do not plan on it, my advice 2 u is let him be he will come back 2 what he knows , and he knows that u klove him so u know that he will come back 2 u , but u need 2 pay attention 2 what he asks of u because if he is telling u , that u need 2 change then it NEEDS 2 b done 4 the benefit of the relationship.
2006-10-07 10:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you both need time off from each other. What you both need to do is step back and consider the pros and cons for this relationship that you are having and consider if it is worth keeping and living unhappy or separating and being happy......
2006-10-07 10:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by Tiny Jr. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough situation... it might be time to just go your separate ways. Even if you still care about him, sometimes too much damage has been done (on both sides). Learn from this, and in your next relationship, be kinder, and expect more kindness from your partner.
2006-10-07 10:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a nagging insensitive individual who needs to learn to submit to a man totally, let him have his space, and fill yours!, Do anal for him prolonged oral and never say no... to anything..if you want to be with him more..offer him group fun! And think yourslef lucky this time you might have another chance..and I mean that in a nice way xx
God Bless you xx
2006-10-07 10:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move on now isn't it? you two by the sounds of it definitely do need your space from each other, some things just aren't meant to be
2006-10-07 10:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he needs his space,, stop calling him, play hard to get,, when he calls keep it short and to the point, he will come running
2006-10-07 10:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him! i know will be hard for you, but is better
2006-10-07 10:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is immature
2006-10-07 10:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋