ok i need help really bad
ok my ex said i was anarix when im not i weigh 89 pounds and im 11. and he told my firend that me and my bff were anirix when we arnt and shes gonna tell the counclers and ever1 gonna think were anirix when we rnt what could i do ?
ps: if the counlers bellive her then there gonna freak and thenwe will have a repution thts not evan true what can i do?
2006-10-07 03:25:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Sweety, when I was 11 I weighed around 75 and I was barely anorexic. It depends on your shape. Do you have a wider frame or a smaller one? If it's smaller you can get away with weighing less. Not to mention, You are only 11! You've got about 5 years more to grow, you'll put the weight on, trust me.
If you're so worried about someone telling a counselor you and your friend are anorexic, then maybe you have something to hide? Maybe you really do have an ED. If you don't then you have nothing to be scared of and nothing to hide. Don't worry about it. If it's not true, how about having a bunch of people over for some snacks and a movie. If they see you eating then they'll push the thought of you being anorexic aside. Just don't take a trip to the bathroom after you eat. It'll put thoughts in people's minds.
2006-10-07 03:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by H.L.A. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first, it's a terrible idea for you to even have a boyfriend at that age. Also, you should probably know how to type and spell properly by the time you are 11 years old.
About your weight, it depends on how tall you are. I'm 12, 5'5, and weight 117. I look fine. If you're pretty short, it would be normal for you to weight a little less. However, if you're pretty tall, 89 pounds, and have unhealthy eating habits, you might want to start eating a little more, and possibly put on a tiny bit of weight, because if your spine sticks up into your skin, that might just give people the idea that you have a problem. Yeah, that was a really crappy answer, I know. Sorry.
2006-10-07 18:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by Pinky♥Puffin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you this was for girls but I had to answer anyway.
First of all don't worry about what your ex says about you. Chances are he is hurt over loosing you and is trying to make you hurt also.
Secondly boys around your age can be very cruel to girls because the boys are going thru puberty and they aren't thinking straight. Trust me when I say that they may pick on you now but in a year or two the same boys will be chasing you all over the place and they won't be doing it to make fun of you.
The best way to kill a rumor is to not think about and try not to let people know that it bothers. People will soon forget what was said because something new will come around.
2006-10-07 11:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by mr_oilfield_78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is to talk openly with the counselors if they get called. They will see that you are healthy and fine and it will be over. As far as a reputation goes, no one will remember this in 5 years, let alone 5 months. There's nothing wrong with seeing the counselor for problems. I'm sure your friends will have bigger problems as life goes on. good luck, honey
2006-10-07 10:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by mamasita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention how tall you are but 89 pound for 11 years old doesn't sound anorexic to me. As a matter of fact it's a pretty good weight. Don't worry about the counselors believing her, they are adult and know how to handle this issues.
Just continue to eat and be healthy and not worry about people who gossip about you.
2006-10-07 10:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex boyfriend started a rumor about me when I was 11. he said that i was suicidal!! so i understand how you feel. you need to go to the counceller immeadiatly and tell her/him the whole truth. then, call your ex boyfriend's parents (this will be scary but you WILL be glad you did it,) and tell them the truth. If your boyfriend's parent's are rude or mean to you. Have you're parents have a meeting with his. that should get any new rumors stopped from being spread. make sure to tell anyone who asks you if your anarexic the truth, and don't get mad at them. thank them for asking you before assuming anything bad about you. eventually, you'll have an army of people who believe you fighting for your reputation.
2006-10-07 10:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by girly000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up a rumor about him that people wouldnt have a hard time believing, and threaten to tell everyone about that. But I am really skinny also, im18 and only weigh 112 lbs, people used to call me all kinda names, but once they caught a glipse of me eating, they knew I wasnt anorexic...lol.
2006-10-07 10:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't anorexic.... you are eleven years old and you haven't completely developed yet. Anorexics are people with an altered perception of what they look like (i.e. they think that they look fat when in reality they aren't). They don't eat or eat very little that ends up making their bodies deteriorate. If this isn't you, ignore the boy.
2006-10-07 10:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the counsler that your ex is spreading rumors about you that arent true the counsler will understand good luck!
2006-10-07 10:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by starglowshady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, you ARE kind of skinny, but i know thats not youre fault-- i have friends who are 12 and weigh ALOT less, because it just runs in the family. I think you should tell them the truuth calmly, otherwise they might think you are lying. Also, you should eat alot in front of them! ;-)
2006-10-07 11:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋