We met about 3 months ago and hit it off like you wouldn't believe. We are so great together and enjoy each other emensely. But she's such a slut. She not only wants it all the time, she wants me to arrange gang bangs for her. This is insane. She says I'm the guy she wants to spend her life with and the others would be just for sex. Just for sex? Is this insane or am I just to old fashioned? I don't think I can live that way. Any suggestions?
2006-10-07 03:05:27 · 21 answers · asked by Justa_Honay_Guy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think she has a long road ahead. She sounds like that is how she validates herself. I think she needs therapy, maybe you could help her with that. In the meantime be honest. Let her know that to you it is cheating. Its the only way to help her. Good luck! check out my question?
2006-10-07 03:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the *****! this iz not a healthy relationship! not to mention the diseasez she'll pass on 2u. eewwww
if she really likez/lovez u , she would be satisfied with u & not ask for "gang bangz"!! she'z outa' controle & from what u wrote, it seemz she'z just there to have a good time.. I duno.. but she doeznt sound like a sain gurl who'z inlove... U can't take a gurl like that seriously ... she may go out one day & **** ur brother!! i duno... but trust iz v.important in a relationship & ur gurl doeznt sound like she'z the "trust worthy" type.
2006-10-07 10:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by CupCake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a major slut whore to me dude. I knew a girl like that too, not into gangs but I was told I was the man for her too, but she based her happiness on sex and that was it.
Dump her before you really get hurt.
2006-10-07 10:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by Obsean 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She needs to go to a doctor and see what he thinks.he may send her to therapy..it can be a ohysical illness that she has no control over...IF you love her help her thorough it.if not RUN...her having sex with more and you??????? I'm sorry if it isn't medical she isn't for you. Anyone wanting many partners can't be inlove..in lust maybe....well, not in my book...go find yourself a woman who REALLY loves you...women like her are a dime a dozen!
2006-10-07 10:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a low sex drive and low self esteem. Let her go, she needs more of a man than you. Go to a Church Meeting or religious group and meet one of the sexually repressed individuals who post on here, then save it for your wedding night and good luck as the world screams...LOSER
2006-10-07 10:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be a man about it. Use her for sex but don't get attached. Stay on the lookout for someone to settle down with (not her) but in the meantime....
2006-10-07 10:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Enjot the ride, but get out before she hurts ya real bad.
2006-10-07 10:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by alanc_59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the air out of her. Put her back in the box she was shipped in, and send her back to that mail order place she came from. They'll send you your $14.95 back.
2006-10-07 10:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by Vinegar Taster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One suggestion: If you don`t want to live this way, then don`t.
There are plenty of women out there.
2006-10-07 10:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by Ateviel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is insane but have the sex...
Lots of Sex
Invite your friends....
Invite your friends' friends....
2006-10-07 10:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by Teacher Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋