How do you handle being judged by someone who doesn't know you?

Answer 1

only god has the power to judge

Answer 2

It doesn't bother me. It sure looks bad on them. I wonder how they handle judging people they don't know:).
People judge you by the clothes they see you wearing not knowing you may have just finished a 12 hour shift in worst conditions than they ever have seen. They judge you by the look in your face not knowing you may be half asleep from that nights work, or just got the news someone you love has cancer.
The judge you by the little toyota you are driving only holding 12 dollars in gas, while they are pumping 5 dollars into a big suv or 4 wheel drive pickup dreading the payment book laying on the seat.
The redneck looks on with comptemp at the long haired kid in front of him (who may be in his 5th year of medical school) in the grocier line. The teacher wonders why some of her students even bother to come to school, not knowing some of them dread their day with her as much as she does with them. The politician and the preacher both sitting on their throne talk of the mess our world is in and wondering if their girlfriends are going to be with them to night or their awful husbands. I've been called a sorry god awful liberal redneck here and a conservative racist redenck who shouldn't be allowed to be here or even live:):) but it's their right to say that we all must support. and I am glad Yahoo does support open chat. and posts.
I really don't pay any attention to rhetic and raves by those people.

Answer 3

It irritates me when someone misjudges me. I usually find some way to retaliate where I can piss the person off & make them feel uncomfortable or irritated. Not all the time though. I judge the situation & see where it is coming from. It really depends on the situation, and who the person is. Sometimes people need to be put in their place or they don't know when to stop. Sometimes it is best just to ignore the person. Alot of things happen in life that we can't control--- You just have to pick your moments.

Answer 4

I don't handle it because I don't give a damn. Someone who doesn't know me can't honestly judge me, so why should I care? I don't think I'm alone on this. :)

Answer 5

I ignore it because the people that know me know me well and I just ignore the ones that don't. It's kinda funny some of the things people come up with and how untrue they are. Ignoring is the best way to go.

Answer 6

I try to handle it well but I'm not perfect I slip up sometimes.I know alot of people look at me and assume I mad or have an attitude, when really I'm just thinking to myself.

Answer 7

it hurts when they do. I used to try to prove that i am not what they think, it never worked. Now i just don't care: it is impossible to be liked by everyone, impossible to eliminate everyone's prejudices.
I guess that you should just remember that those who know you, like your friends, would never judge you.

Answer 8

I shrug it off. Who cares what they think? They don't know me. Shoot, the people who do know me and still judge me can kiss my butt. I'm my own person and really don't care what others think. As long as I'm happy and content what does it matter?

Answer 9

I let it go. They have no right, and they judge by their own screwed up experiences, not mine. (And Christian / atheist doesn't enter into it. All people who judge do it from only thier own view point.)

Answer 10

I shrug it off because it's exactly like dust on my shoulders.

Doesn't make much of a difference but you feel better when it's gone.