When my boyfriend and I go out clubbing we always end up having a little fight as in he wont go out dancing or I think he is looking at another girl.We are together 3yrs now is time catching up on us,are we boring each other!
2006-10-07 01:55:11 · 6 answers · asked by bornmadchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Judging from your post it appears you become angry because he simply "looks" at other girls. When not engaged in conversation, checking out everyone else in the club is part of the fun. Loosen up a little, as long as he is only looking and not touching (or getting numbers)
2006-10-07 02:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by ©2009 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read in a magazine, when a guy stares at something, it doenst mean that he's looking at it or he thinks about somehting particular... I got a similar experience w/ my boyfriend.
Anyway, I don't think you guys are bored yet, you still care and jealous of him. Just take your time and tell him how you feel. Maybe what you really need is a really good conversation with him. Just tell him how you feel and what's bothering you and ask him if he feels the same. After that just go from there...
That's what I did and we're still together!
Good luck!
2006-10-07 09:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by Annie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a sign of a lack of confidence in yourself, not a sign of boredom. If you were bored you wouldn't care who he was looking at.
However it doesn't sound like you guys are doing it for each other any more and setting yourselves up for drama to escape the relationship.
Have a frank talk with him. Tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same way. Skip the drama, end it like friends and move on.
2006-10-07 09:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be you are out gowning each other, it is time for you both to move on, if you can't seem to have a conversation, or go out with each other, and end up fighting, all the time. You do not need that, that is too much stress. it is time for you to take your life back. and do more for yourself. because you are worth it.
2006-10-07 09:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me oldfashioned but isnt clubbing for single people. If you love you man wouldnt it be nicer to spend time together away from those meat markets.
2006-10-07 09:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to look into your heart and hear what it is telling you. Not people here on y/a.
2006-10-07 08:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋