but my man of 9 years won't give me 1, and i dont c the point of paying for 1, unless he get's his own way, i don't get anything, am i being selfish
2006-10-07 01:48:39 · 6 answers · asked by louise 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is taking you for granted . . . do the same to him by not giving him what he wants and see if that jolts him back into line!
2006-10-07 01:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by ang_172 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if you're being criptic here as to "paying for one" Do you mean you can't get a Massage from him without him wanting sex too? Ethier way spend the cash and have someone that makes house calls help you out if there is a true need. If you just want to be pampered by your husband you should be willing to pamper in return. It's very difficult to massage your spouse and not get aroused. It's not fair to put that strain on him repeatedly, again, unless you truely have a need for pain relief.
2006-10-07 02:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Love is the principle thing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the selfish one is your husband! if you feel that you need a massage there is nothing better than a professional! a homemade massage in the bedroom is something nice and sweet but a professional one would really help to get your muscles relaxed and strengthened!
as to your husband I think you should talk to him about your needs.
2006-10-07 01:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by julesloveslife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not he should give you a massage i always gave a massage to my girl fiends if they wanted one.
2006-10-07 01:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on his reason. Why not pay for one, it is light years more advanced than what hubby will do.
2006-10-07 01:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by RM706 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not if your in need of one your not being selfish.
2006-10-07 01:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋