don't want to hurt any one's feelings.can't discuss it with both of them..both are equally important in my life..tried to talk to my friend..don't know what does she wants...not able to enjoy my relationship with both of them.
2006-10-07 00:48:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The only remedy is to have a frank discussion with your friend. let the time go by and surely Time will heal the differnce and bring you both on the table for talks.
2006-10-07 01:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by SWIFT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh pricey.Marriage is a existence time dedication.i'd say, you made a mistake the first actual time you keen to compromise with him on leaving all you used to do for his sake. Now its quit confusing to bypass again or to teach again the fingers of the clock. Its as a lot as you to come back to a call to both, provide up all that you used to do and proceed residing like that or stay the existence which will make you smooth. examine with him about your interests, enable him understand ways you sense about his habit and how your opinion might want to count number as you'd be his spouse. in case you do not sense smooth in the relationship now, then its extra perfect to imagine a touch extra or herald his mom and your moms and dads because even as moms and dads start up controlling your relationship,then you quite will defiantly have a lot larger complications in the later destiny.good luck
2016-12-04 09:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know the answer to your question because I'm "not yet" at your place, but I know someday soon I will be... But to tell the truth , I wouldn't trade my best friend for a guy (no offense) that would only give me head ache sooner or later... If I have to suppress my feeling so as not to hurt my best friend and make her feel that she lost me, I'll do it. Well, good luck... I wish you happiness. Follow your heart. But think twice.
2006-10-07 00:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to differentiate between love & friendship. You have to openly express your interests to your love as well as friend. Initially there may be some problems of acceptance but later on everything should be fine!!!
2006-10-07 00:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true friends can be very reliable but can also feel like they will loose you if you find true happiness only you can decide if having both will work for you your friend might not be there for a little while but a true friend will be there if it works out for you and will also be there to tell you i told you so be prepared to accecpt both options and follow your heart
2006-10-07 00:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by cheryl m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your friend the reason she is not ready to accept this relationship. when the reason is in front of you try to make her understand that where she is wrong in that thinking of hers. may b you could make up her mind
All da best
2006-10-07 00:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by guy_4ur_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend do you have ? Romantic friend or just a friend. If you are in love you go for it& if that friend can't handle it tell them that you are moving on.
2006-10-07 00:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your friend is jealous w/ u! if she is realy your friend, then she'll understand that you want to be happy w/ a guy! try to think who is the most important for you! and follow what you think is right! gud luck!
2006-10-07 01:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by mark!!001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens...it happened with me too..my best friend didn't like my boy friend....
even i used to get upset that they were not getting along well...
but after some time, she got a boyfriend....then she started talking properly and said that she needed time and now is fine........well i felt good that everything was fine .........
but she was selfish.......and i had a constant struggle all this time....now it seemed i wasted my time,and ruined my happiness all those days......
now you decide What you wanna do............
2006-10-07 07:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just break up your relation with both of them and make new relation with 3rd. Ok dude i hope it is gonna work for you.
2006-10-07 01:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋