2006-10-07 00:34:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're separated. Who she sees and doesn't see is irrelevant and can only get in the way. If you still care about her or your relationship, focus on her. That other stuff will take you down roads you don't want to go.
2006-10-07 00:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Steve M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In the beginning, it can be hard to accept that even though you have separated, your is wife is seeing or having a male friend at her house.
I really think that if you are going for divorce it should not bother you at all, however , if you think that this is temporary then you might ask the question if you feel that there is still something to save in this relationship. Separating is difficult to deal with and I suggest that you let her speak about it to you.
Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-07 01:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, maybe not.... but if ur seperated.. then really its of no concern to u , just as if u were to have a "lady friend" at your house.. .. although ur tech. still married.. u've stopped living as husband and wife and she is free to have male friends or more then friends over.. this is what happens when u seperate and move on to divorce, you start moving on.. sorry but its the truth..
2006-10-07 00:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, what were the circumstances of you guys separating? if you asked your wife and she said 'he's just a friend.' chances are, he's not. no single man and married (but separated) woman be in a house with nothing going on. understand? if he's supposed to be a friend, he'd understand that he can't go over to a married woman's house just by themselves.
hope you sort things out.
2006-10-07 00:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by Chris E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a friend and a lover. You and your wife should be living apart if you are separated. Not good to live under the same roof.
2006-10-07 09:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 10:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on you are a guy how many female friends do you have and waste your time being their friend? In my experience not too many guys want to be friends without sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you all are separated why should it matter. Go on with your life. Most of all do not react to the situation or react because of it, it will only make it worse.
2006-10-07 01:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by barbie2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh honey did you ask her that's probably why your separated. do you ever talk to her about your concerns etc.or is the only thing your worried about is that she is screwing around on you. look up the words relationship, marriage, love, trust, concern. beside you only said that you are separated. are you going to divorce her is this trial, or is she through with you stop thinking like a syco husband if it's over be man enough to let her go or work to get her back
2006-10-07 00:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is most likely a friend ...a person to confide in.
But if you guys are seperated then really it has nothing to do with you. I dont mean to sound heartless, but in reality , it is a seperation.
2006-10-07 00:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Either way, there is another man in her life and it seems as though she is moving on. Separation is a stepping stone to either getting divorced or repairing the marriage.
2006-10-07 00:41:01 · answer #10 · answered by amalia372005 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋