Me and my wife are sexually very active. Missing out on sex for a year, Iam afraid, she might cheat on me. How can I tell, not to mention, asking her, if she had cheated. From her behaviour to actuall examing her private parts. She is still on contraceptive pills and shaving her pubic hair.
2006-10-07 00:01:17 · 9 answers · asked by viba vibration 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Instead of Figuring out a way to know if she cheated or not why don't you make sure that this doesn't happen..for example keep in touch through telephone or mails ..send her miss u cards or tell her how much you love her whenever u talk .... i think that might help prevent her from cheating you because she knows she has a loving husband who cares about her no matter how far he is. And for you I would say try to be more of an Optimist..it will sure create less problems in the world!
2006-10-07 00:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by homosapien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be secure in your marriage, and stop thinking the worst, not all woman cheat, buy her a sex toy, and when she gets to urge, she can use that!. Treat her right and be nice to her, and she will not want to go out and cheat on you! The worst thing you could do is accuse her, of doing something she has not done. So try and be happy, and keep telling her, you just can't wait to be back in her arms again, the time can't come sooner!
2006-10-07 07:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And how can SHE tell that you won't be cheating on her? There are no guarantees in marriage. There is no way other than hiring a private investegator to watch her for a year what she does. But then again she has no way of knowing what you will be doing either. Doesn't sound like you trust your wife which tells me you really don't LOVE her...if you did you wouldn't be asking this question.
2006-10-07 07:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's something called "trust"that you should have for your wife.If you have no trust in her it means that you have no trust in yourself!If she loves you enough,she wont cheat on you.Its only a year.You should focus on being faithful yourself instead of questioning her.Unless she has done it before and that is why you have your doubts.Well,other than confronting her about it I really dont think there is any other way you can ask her..chill out!!
2006-10-07 07:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go away from a sexually active woman for a year then you should expect her to cheat on you. I bet you've already cheated on her!
2006-10-07 07:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well youi wont be able to tell from the body.
2006-10-07 07:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chasity belt.
I'm sure if you are in tune with her you'll notice a change in her demeanor.
2006-10-07 07:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by usaf.primebeef 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She will cheat, most women do.
2006-10-07 07:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by BWLJ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
do you really think you can handle it yourself...away for one year...a few trips to the titty bar...you'll forget your even married....
2006-10-07 07:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋