2006-10-06 23:55:50 · 15 answers · asked by nandita t 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Because, quite simply, marriages aren't made in heaven; they're made here on earth -- and all too often by people who don't give enough serious thought about it.
2006-10-06 23:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most couples seem to get married, when they are far too young, and for the wrong reasons. Some have some unrealistic vision that marriage will solve all their problems, and make them, more mature, and responsible. A good marriage is at times hard, and can test ones real devotion to their spouse. Some people are also just in love with the idea of being in love, and think that marriage will insure that feeling, only to find that has time passes, things change, and so do people. No marriage can always be heaven, the trick is to do your best to compliment each others lives, and wait until you know that the person you marry, is still the person you will love thirty years down the road, when all the glamor of youth has faded.
2006-10-07 07:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Marriages were made in heaven and the union is blessed and comes about at just the right time destined. Because this is God's pre-plan and that can't change. However what changes is when the relationships actual functions starts on earth!
Have you every noticed that before marriage everything works so fine with the couple, however after marriage everything goes against the couple. Interventions from other parties like friends in-laws parents etc???? Because when the relationship comes to the earth (i.e. god's plan is fullfilled here on earth) the satan does his best to make sure that it (god's plan) does not stay that way, so he make sure that all kinds of problems and trials meet the couple. Instead of focusing on the need and strength of their relationship and on God who brought them together they look at their own or their partners failures and make a mountain of any mole hill! Such that partner begin to constantly war against each other, there are ego clashes and the relationship reaches a point where either partner is not willing to compromise.
Couples who divorce should remember you need somebody to grow old with! Money does not help! Ambition does not help! Your friends who suggested separation wont take care of you in the hospital! Only the one who promised to stay with you will!
2006-10-11 02:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by indiangal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because over time, people change and grow in directions they could not imagine in an earlier time. Some couples grow in similar or complimentary directions; and some grow in directions that make continuing with the commitment unlikely. For example, if a couple gets married young and then they go to college, they may find that their interests and ideas about the world (and each other) change as a result of their mental development through education. Because they are no longer the same people they were when they originally married, they are no longer compatible with one another and should be free to find someone with whom they will be happier to share a life.
My opinion is that marriages are not made in heaven; they are decisions made on Earth by fallible people, most of whom have the intention to stay together until death when they say "I do". Unfortunately, you cannot predict in what ways you or your partner will change; and therefore, while your intention was to stay together until death, it may be wiser to part and allow one another to find happiness.
2006-10-07 11:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by j14456um 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The people who ae too self centric end up with such a problem. Any relation that is based on giving and sharing and enjoy giving to the other and accomodating the other can never fall apart.
2006-10-07 07:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by No Saint 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In Marriage Commitment is more important than all other things. Marriage is Union of two individual on promise of living life together in ups and downs of life. Now a days materialistic happiness is more important than of heart so if one partner is going down another partner don't hesitate to leave. because everyone salutes rising sun. but remember nothing is permenant so one person failure today can be success tomorrow. never leave anyone in bad times, you can get your love forever.
2006-10-07 07:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by wparkar 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Even made in Heaven is no guarantee for love. Only true love lasts, otherwise the relationship is bound to change for the worse.
2006-10-07 07:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by small 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because the 2007 models just came out of hell and the no money down deal is too good to pass?
2006-10-07 07:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by : ) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all marriages are not made in heaven. n ppl now dayz think bout just themselfs no one cares bout neone else. relations are now just a game
2006-10-07 07:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by guy_4ur_life 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
now a days there is lack of mutual understanding between couples.family sentiments and importance are reducing day by day.thats why marraige became hell and going to court.
2006-10-08 03:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by crazy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋